You're sitting at home and decide to go out to find new women. What do you do exactly?

MartMillz · 2013-06-26T09:32:19+00:00

Before anyone says online dating: The Mall, Farmer's market, a club, bookstore, the park.

Although truthfully, I've noticed there's no real days where you just leave the house with the expressed purpose of meeting someone. It's all about stepping up to the plate and approaching her when you're actually in the midst of doing something else and you happen to notice her.

nomnom83 · 2013-06-26T09:31:27+00:00

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fall0ut · 2013-06-26T15:37:16+00:00

Take shower.
Put on clean clothes that fit.
Go somewhere with the highest chance of meeting a pretty girl.
See pretty girl say hi, or insert any opener you are happy with.
????
Profit.

Southy97 · 2013-06-26T14:20:41+00:00

I go to costco and pick up a 2 liter bottle of baby oil, go home, put about half of it in the tub (save the other half for next week), put on sexy music, lay a towel on the ground, and then just marinade for thirty minutes or until preferred shine. Then go to the local old age home.

Works every time.

recyclablebantha · 2013-06-26T09:26:11+00:00

How about answering some questions first?

Do you know what kind of girl(s) you like?
What hobbies do you have? Do any of them involve socializing?

There is no one size fits all answer about where to go, what to do, strategy, or thoughts running through my head. I could give you my answers to these questions but that wouldn't help YOU because you're not ME.

You need to figure out what kind of girls and experiences you want to have, which will help you determine what strategy should be used, where you should go, etc.

As for the thoughts running through my head, I could share those because I think they could apply, regardless of what the rest of your answer are.

I go out to serve myself. For example: I enjoy dancing, so I go to dance clubs to dance and play with people on the dance floor.
I strive to be open to whatever comes. If people seem to be interesting, I talk to them, regardless of whether or not they are "hot chicks".
I wonder what people are like, I don't jump to the conclusion that they are cool. I can acknowledge that a girl has a hot physical appearance but that doesn't give her a pass in my book until she can pass my shit tests.
I strive to enjoy whatever connections I build with anyone, without thinking beyond the moment. I'm not wasting time being afraid of losing a connection. I just focus on making the most of it while it's there.

2013-06-27T01:06:25+00:00

you go outside.

Methaxetamine · 2013-06-26T16:31:38+00:00

I go make a dating profile on okc, pof, or one of those free dating sites. hit up girls on craigslist.

Only do this if you are handsome, if you are not then you will waste your time! Helps to be white in most general cases, and if you are a minority you will encounter chasers.

I sit back and wait, when a girl hits you up, shes DTF, if you hit her up its an uphill battle. I only had sex with one girl that way, the rest hit me up.

projectself · 2013-06-26T20:09:45+00:00

"So you're sitting at home and you decide you want to meet a completely new girl that you had no prior connection to whatsoever. Where do you go?" .. no. just no.
The work is full of women, everywhere, there are women around every corner of your day all day long. When you go out, you do not go out to search for women. Attaching to that outcome is the wrong frame, because you have set the goal to get a woman.

You go out to have fun. Go out to enjoy now. To live and experience the moment. If women join you or join your life for some experiences and you want that it will happen.

Title	You're sitting at home and decide to go out to find new women. What do you do exactly?
Author	nomnom83
Upvotes	12
Comments	23
Date	June 26, 2013 7:47 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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