Assuming Attraction?

filthytacos · 2013-09-16T00:46:21+00:00

What they mean by assume attraction is to just go in treating the interaction with no pressure on yourself and act like you guys have been dating already. Treat them like old friends.

puaCurveBall · 2013-09-16T19:08:28+00:00

Assuming attraction is a mechanism to improve your chances of success for whatever level you are at.

Let's say you have a 1-10 scale for how attractive you are. This is from adding up your social value, confidence, body language, all that stuff. This is the scale that improves with seduction knowledge / practice.

If you are at a 9 on the scale, then you will have a lot of success regardless, but you are going to have MUCH MORE success if you assume attraction. You will convert a lot of situations you were unsure about, and overall have more women in your life.

If you are a 4 on the scale, then you won't have as much success as someone who is already a 9, however you will still have more success than you would otherwise by assuming attraction. You'll go after more girls, and you'll send off positive signals for situations that would otherwise consider to be losses, and a certain % of those will convert into attraction for you.

As you get better with seduction, you'll move up the scale, and assuming attraction will be true more and more. However, just because you aren't currently high on the scale doesn't change its effectiveness across the entire scale, it just means you'll be wrong pretty often.

allex8800 · 2013-09-16T00:44:44+00:00

A practical way of applying "assuming attraction" is to do C&F accusations. I.e. anything she says and does towards you is her sub-communicating that she wants to fuck you.

She touches your arm - "hey lady, I know you think I'm super hot, but you gotta pay to touch the merchandise."

She says it could be cool to do an activity together - "hey, don't think because we're hanging out that means you're going to immediately get in my pants. I need some romance first."

Always accuse her of thinking you're awesome and she's trying to seduce her. Basically treat her the way every girl treats an AFC.

This doesn't necessarily create attraction, but it does make you more attractive. It's only a small part of seduction, mainly front end stuff (A1-A3 in MM). But make sure you start to reciprocate as you move into comfort.

Title	Assuming Attraction?
Author	Manawah
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	September 15, 2013 11:11 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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