If you're consistently getting asked if you're a player, it might mean something systemic should change with your interactions.

For me, I got accused of being a player all the time at one point when I was learning, because I would generate a bunch of attraction and then immediately go for a kiss or a pull home. I wasn't doing a good job of having standards, screening, and qualifying. Other times, you'll be doing everything right, but the girl will just be messing around or genuinely asking. Either way, this is my response to anything like "Are you a player?" or "I know guys like you, I bet you sleep with all the girls".

This may seem like a "shit test" but it's actually a GREAT opportunity to display confidence and personality.

If girls ask me something like this, here's how I respond. "Haha you think you know me because you "know guys like me", but you have no idea. I meet a lot of people when I go out, but I rarely meet someone who has all the things I'm looking for. Most guys will sleep with anyone who let's them, but the truth is, I turn down sex way more than I say yes to it."

It's honestly how I feel, and it's a very attractive mindset. It also very naturally leads itself to you talking about your standards. Feel free to steal it, play with it, and make it your own. I consistently had this problem and this was a game changer for me.