So, we have a classic college Friday night. Heading over to a friends house for a party. We get there, people I don't know so I start with some social proof ( not because of them, 'cause I actually love that guy but it was social proofing) went up to my friend and host. Much manly hugging and hearty greetings. Go to play some drinking card games with the majority of the party. I see HB:9 and HB:6 (friends) decide I'm going to game HB9 tonight (only one I am interested in at this point). Play a couple rounds of the game, it requires knowing names so I introduce myself; I shake hands - eye contact, strong body language and such.

Lets get to the meat and potatoes. Halfway through a different game, HB9 gets up and walks past. (In order to help myself remember how I perform and escalate I classify all my kino as "first touch" "second touch" etc) My first touch as she walks by was from the back of her knee to her upper thigh. I get up to get another beer and my second touch was lingering lower back as I brush past. Ha, I am laughing at myself even as I write this.

Now you may be thinking all sorts of things about this boldness but lets keep moving.

So after those touches I shut off all contact. Where there were lingering eyes and smiles, now there was nothing. I see her 5 minutes later miming to her friend exactly what I did. I thought I shit the bed boys, I really did. It turns out that it wasn't so bad (I'll get to the real kicker in a bit) and I talked to her later after party hopping, negging her about the size of hole with which she used to shotgun etc. Positive reciprocation from her. She ends up playing pong with a different guy, my friend is ready to leave, so we go.

Night #2:

We finish a rugby social, and are having a kegger. I meet an HB7 in the keg line. Jokes and light touches - shoulder and arm. I # close her later that night; she was really into me so it was fairly easy, I just worked hard at it because I need the practice. Anyhoo, after the kegger we hop over to a friends 21er party, and guess who I see? That's right, HB9. She was looking fine. Remember, at this point I though I dropped the ball on that one, but as I walk through a hallway to a different room we bump into each other, alone in this dark hallway. She says hi, I ask her how she is (I almost blacked later that night so the details of this are fuzzy as I try to remember but 2 things: We are each just a bit buzzed, not drunk and this line happens halfway through the usual conversation bs) She steps closer to me and says "but you are so forward"(her body language says she wants me) and I get in real close hand on lower back and whisper in her ear "and that is why you like it so much". I do a signature move, tracing her jawline with one finger pulling her in for the kiss and pull away at the last second rejoining the party. At this point I am in and would have closed it out later but a fight broke out and someone broke a table and the cops came and she disappeared.

To sum up the main theme here I used bold, very forward kino and it created attraction which outweighed all the other guys at the parties hitting on her. I was flabbergasted that it worked, instead of earning me a slap. I tested this on another girl thinking it was a fluke and it worked in a similar fashion.

I would like to have some discussion on this, and any constructive critique of any part of my game that weekend is much appreciated.