What are some good ways to turn the conversation to be more sexual?

L1AM · 2013-10-29T23:40:39+00:00

Kino is absolutely necessary. Keep touching her — not in a sexual way; just the elbows, and the shoulders are especially good/easy. If she really turned you on, would you be able to keep your hands off her?

pyrelic · 2013-10-30T09:53:56+00:00

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joshsway · 2013-10-29T22:14:53+00:00

I find the most effective way to get sexual is non-verbal, i.e. kino and eye contact. So I think you are on the right track with the kino. You don't need to turn conversation sexual necessarily. I find somewhat low correlation between sexual conversation and odds of getting laid. Sometimes, I think that non-sexual conversation (but with very sexual eye contact + kino) makes it even easier to succeed because women are more apt to let their guard down

InvictusRex · 2013-10-30T05:42:31+00:00

Kino kino kino. Kino builds comfort. You need some level of comfort to talk sexually. The easiest way to bring it up for me is in a humorous manner after establishing some solid level of physical comfort with her. Once I bring it up in a humorous way it's easy for me to transition into a more serious sexual vibe. This is just how I do things though, my game relies on my humor/sarcasm/wit/teasing.

Just establish comfort with kino and then just jump into it, is really the best thing I can say. Fuck, marry, kill game is a great transition and will work for a lot of people to transition into sexual talk. Also it's a great transition when you can't sit next to her (you sit down first and she sits across and you feel weird moving seats). You sit next to her and lean in and start the game, pick some random guys. Lots of room for kino because you can point her hand at people or kind of physically turn her and nudge her, etc, etc. She tells you me her answer and then I usually tease her about it in some way. "He looks like he's into _____, is that what you like?!" or whatever idk it's easier in the moment but you get the idea.

2013-10-30T03:18:23+00:00

Yes, touch is important, but I 100% think you should be brining up sex verbally if you want to consistently have sex the night you meet a girl.

You can bring up sex all the time. Starting in minute 1 of the conversation, or after she's attracted to you and you're telling her about your standards for people/women (I'm assuming one of your standards is sexual confidence or sexual openness given your question and your desire to talk sexually early on).

I'm feeling lazy so I'm just going to copy and paste some stuff from the Kickass Academy book we wrote. This stuff should help you tremendously.

SEXUALIZING WHEN INTRODUCING HER TO YOUR FRIENDS (OR HERS FOR THAT MATTER) - a roleplay

You: (role-playing) “This is my high school girlfriend. She was the head cheerleader and I didn’t even realize how much of a crush she had on me. She asked me to prom, stole my v-card that night, and has been pursuing me ever since. Total sexual predator but I respect that she gets what she wants.”

The Frame: She’s hot, I’m hotter. She couldn’t wait to bang me and is still into it. Plus she has the admirable quality of going for what she wants (i.e. me). Good frame!

WHEN SHE TEASES YOU OR SAYS ANYTHING PLAYFULLY NEGATIVE (an example of push/pull + sexualizing)

Ex: “You’re such a hater, you’re fired as my secretary. Too bad, cause all that kinky office sex was pretty sweet. Don’t try to win me back by seducing me with those adorable puppy eyes. [big hug] God you’re the worst!”

WHEN TOLD YOU'RE A PLAYER OR GOOD WITH GIRLS OR THAT YOU PROBABLY SLEEP AROUND (this is a standards monologue, screening her against what you're looking for in a woman)

“The truth is I go out all the time and I meet a ton of girls. And some of them I like. And some of them I don’t like. But I turn down sex waaaay more than I have sex. I’d rather go home alone than go home with someone that I didn’t think I wanted to see again. I don’t do onenight stands. But if I meet a girl I like, of course I take her home. That sort of sexual spontaneity and non-judgmentalness is really important to me. I don’t want a girl who thinks it’s bad to have sex. I want a girl that can’t keep her hands off me and I want a girl who I just can’t wait to take her clothes off. Chemistry is super important to me and if I don’t feel that chemistry, that chick gets friend zoned, no matter how hot.”

Hope that helps!

sharkacolypse · 2013-10-30T01:56:42+00:00

I try to not talk about sexual things, and let escalating touch do that part of the flirting for me. I use my words to make her laugh and smile, and I've noticed the more people talk about sexual things around girls they're trying to get with the more off put these girls are.

L1AM · 2013-10-29T23:41:12+00:00

Beyond kino... I know this is a little unpopular here on seddit, but if you have abs, talk about them (and show them, if you can). Tell them you learned that the reason why women like abs so much is because they're the primary thrusting muscles in sex. This accomplishes two things: turns the conversation immediately sexual, and gets them thinking about your body.

edit: Because people don't like it again, I think it's necessary to clarify that you only do this if it fits with the conversation. Don't just approach a girl and pull up your shirt.

slcjosh · 2013-10-30T09:33:12+00:00

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Title	What are some good ways to turn the conversation to be more sexual?
Author	TheCrazedMadman
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Date	October 29, 2013 9:58 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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