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Is it ever a good idea to stop contact completely?

Adnanwalker410 · 2013-10-31T17:24:46+00:00

aside from being Crazy or just a flat out bitch When if ever is a good time to just cut your losses and move on? I don't mean women you have just met a...

Adnanwalker410

October 31, 2013

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Title	Is it ever a good idea to stop contact completely?
Author	Adnanwalker410
Upvotes	7
Comments	15
Date	October 31, 2013 5:24 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1pmlnl/is_it_ever_a_good_idea_to_stop_contact_completely/
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[–]HitchSlap92 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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let me put it in this perspective I had a lethal amount of Oneitis for this girl back when I was a true beta. So naturally she friendzoned me because I waited for 4 months before I proclaimed my undying love. She is the very reason I got into Pick up. So I went cold turkey stopped contact hid her posts on Facebook and deleted her number. And after about a year i send her a message intended for someone else, I tell her "My bad wrong person" and then she messages me

"I was actually thinking about you yesterday. I was listening to T.Swift's Red cd in my car and you're the one who got it for me for my birthday. Good times."

I've ignored it up to this point I was just wondering if I should acknowledge or continue to ignore like what would be the more Alpha move. I'm sorry if i used a y of the terms incorrectly I'm a little new to Seddit

[–]cugar2 points 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

been a year now, if you really want you can re-engage or ignore the message, i wouldn't say "ive moved on" if you have moved on, no need to if its been a year without contact thatll seem weird.

if you want to re-engage...i've done this with a couple girls that have gotten in touch again since my more beta days. dont' pussy foot around anything this time though, the next message you send should just be "lets grab a drink at day, time and place" put in everything you've learned, escalate and go for the kiss, tease her, keep up on inner game, be a leader in the relationship, most importantly keep dating OTHER girls as well as her, be a rock and shes yours this time around, you'll shell shock her on how different you are now.

that is if you still want her, otherwise feel free to ignore the message. you may find you aren't even into her anymore.

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