What is a glaring difference between a girl playing hard to get and a girl that is just not interested?

themoor · 2012-11-28T16:11:49+00:00

A girl that is not interested will not return your texts/calls, will try to extract herself from conversations with you when you are out, will actively avoid interacting with you if she sees you out, will be curt if you force interaction with you, etc. A girl who is interested but is playing hard to get will do none of these things.

A girl who is playing hard to get will be playfully flirty for short-spurts, will giggle at your stupid jokes, might agree to meet you out if it is within a group, will take at least some time to chat with you, and will get jealous if she sees you flirting with other women. A girl who is NOT interested in you will do none of these things.

Whittzard · 2012-11-28T15:53:59+00:00

How much she smiles

CinnabonHotJizz · 2012-11-28T20:48:10+00:00

A girl playing hard to get will be noncommittal, but is walking a fine line in maintaining your attention. A girl that is not interested will straight up ignore or repel you. There should be little ambiguity about her intentions.

Over time, you will learn to pick up on these subtle clues within 5 if not 2 minutes into the conversation.

You will also encounter The girl who isn't sure how to play it yet. The girl who will string you along and cocktease you The girl who is friendly but oblivious and friendzones you by default.

Which is why all the escalation techniques on this sub are spot on. It leaves any doubt whether she is interested or not.

Finally, if she is playing hard to get, then you're best option is to counter that shit. She wants you to demonstrate your value so that you're worthy of attaining her interest, so flip the fucking table and make HER earn YOUR interest. Disengage right when you leave a cliffhanger, be it a mystery about you, paying attention to someone else (who she's likely to think is hotter) or acting like she's not worth your time (but only after you've set your impression on her first.)

oderint_dum_metuant · 2012-11-28T23:01:31+00:00

I don't care.

I will push the interaction until she becomes polarized one way or the other. If I'm considering what she wants I consider that not being honest. I'm interested in her, and its my responsibility to give her the choice to choose me, the actual me, or not.

backtothegame · 2012-11-28T19:49:22+00:00

The difference is jealousy. Women not interested at all will not demonstrate anything in regard to the attention you pay to other women. Women playing hard to get will and in fact jealousy is probably the best "strategy" to end their game playing.

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-11-28T15:47:02+00:00

The difference is the result.

essentially_a_repost · 2012-11-29T03:59:22+00:00

Girl here, playing hard to get for me means teasing you (conversationally and otherwise). Rejecting you= ignoring you.

J32926 · 2012-11-28T23:50:17+00:00

hard to get will still smile, touch her hair, and give off subtle ioi's

ikkake · 2012-11-29T12:08:42+00:00

You.

fragglemook · 2012-11-29T13:53:24+00:00

IOI's

puntingbaxter · 2012-11-28T17:37:27+00:00

This is where IOIs come in.

fireitup622 · 2012-11-28T15:36:40+00:00

Whether she seems like she's having fun?

Title	What is a glaring difference between a girl playing hard to get and a girl that is just not interested?
Author	Adnanwalker410
Upvotes	49
Comments	44
Date	November 28, 2012 3:19 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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