How do you tell if a girl's into you?

Condorazzo · 2013-11-18T01:01:20+00:00

As you keep on going out you start to pick up on it.

I'd say there are different levels of a girl being "into" you. She could be into you as in "I might want to see this guy later", or maybe "if he keeps on making me laugh I'll have no problem kissing him" or maybe she'll just keep looking at you sideways while playing with her hair and biting her lips, which is a sign for go for the make out.

If a girl keeps her attention on you, as in she is not looking around, she's not paying attention to her friends but in fact to you, she is at least interested. It doesn't mean she'll make out with you right there, but she'll probably give you her number for example.

Now let's say you see a girl and right as you open her she is smiling and looking deeply in your eyes and just starts dancing with you; like something just clicked between the two of you. That's awesome, means there's chemistry, means you're probably both hot for each other.

Let's say the girls gets nervous or shy around you. Great indicator of interest; she's afraid of being herself and afraid of you denying her.

You're walking around the venue and a girl maintains eye contact with you (as in staring, at least the minimum to assume it's not "normal" anymore), it's probably on.

I could go on and on and on with stuff like this, and I still think I don't know enough. It's all about going out there and paying attention. I like to keep my cool and just observe how the girl reacts to me, I feel like I learn more that way and even get better results.

Good luck with the game! Hope I could help.

CapAWESOMEst · 2013-11-17T21:37:43+00:00

Instead of listing out IOIs (Indicators Of Interest), I'll give you a better tip. Assume Atraction*. As long as she's smiling, she's interested. It is YOUR job to make sure she keeps smiling and to escalate (make it sexual).

*^{until rejected}

TheRedditorist · 2013-11-18T04:41:59+00:00

A look. I can't really describe it. But most girls get this primal sort of animalistic look in their eyes when their into me in a sexual manner. As well as body language and the fact that they let me hang just a little longer in hugs or body contact.

It's mostly the look though. I dig it

Pocobor1113 · 2013-11-18T10:15:12+00:00

Its all in the eyes! The window to the soul, eyes never lie!

itsmevichet · 2013-11-18T14:50:52+00:00

My go to is eye-contact, a smile, laughing, and most importantly: reciprocated kino.

Of course, the only way to see if she stares and smiles back, laughs at your jokes, and touches you back, is to initiate and escalate with all of those first.

So, make eye contact and smile. Is she doing the same back? Then talk to her. Get some kino in as soon as a natural opening appears (leading her through a crowd = hold the hand, opening a door = place hand on lower back, sitting next to her = arm around waist or shoulder, standing at the bar = arm around waist). If she likes it, she'll lean in closer and do some kino of her own.

That said, don't overdo your kino. It should never outpace her reciprocations (you build kino TOGETHER).

ithearrow · 2013-11-18T00:00:32+00:00

whenever she engages you. Don't read too into it. If she engages you, she's interested if not she's disinterested.

2013-11-18T05:58:01+00:00

Lingering eye contact, smiling, receptive to Kino or even initiating it, and when it comes to texting etc, actually responding and being willing to meet up or at least reschedule. Excuses and brush offs are a nice way of saying not interested.

joshsway · 2013-11-18T13:49:07+00:00

There are tons of ways. Read up on IOIs (Indicators of Interest). I have several articles about them that I have posted on reddit, just search my submissions.

terrortot · 2013-11-18T14:40:00+00:00

Ask her if she wants to go see a movie

2013-11-19T05:08:55+00:00

Most of these are bullshit.

Try to kiss her. Find out.

2013-11-18T20:45:54+00:00

Love the Mr. Obvious reference!!!

Title	How do you tell if a girl's into you?
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Date	November 17, 2013 8:41 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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