How do you dance?

exhibitionistcouplez · 2013-12-13T15:05:29+00:00

1) Take dance lessons

2) Find a girl who can dance who you can be friends with and vow not to try to fuck her so you can ask favors like "teach me how to dance"

3) Go look like an idiot anyway and have fun doing it and at some point you will find a girl who qualifies for number 2.

Voyager5555 · 2013-12-13T17:54:37+00:00

Step 1 - Drink. A lot.

Step 2 - Drink some more for a good measure.

Step 3 - ???

Step 4 - Somehow I'm dancing.

joshsway · 2013-12-13T16:00:30+00:00

Will Smith in Hitch....

Nacgt_the_Elyts · 2013-12-13T16:02:13+00:00

I just dance electro music, because at that you just dance the way you want, you cant do it wrong, lol

PicopicoEMD · 2013-12-15T04:32:03+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/AGEb2.gif

HappyJerk · 2013-12-13T16:13:27+00:00

Practice

SpaceCatNinja · 2013-12-13T19:27:19+00:00

Rub your manboobs and pretend to be an enticing stripper.

Indianbro · 2013-12-13T21:42:58+00:00

It's not hard. Every song has a certain beat or tempo (slow, medium, fast, headbang) which you could dance to. The key is to know which genre the song falls into based on its beat per minute. If its anything EDM (which it probably is in a club) just focus on the overall baseline and you could step/walk/even bob your head in rhythm with the steady baseline. That's it.

KidBill · 2013-12-13T22:20:05+00:00

Definitely try to take some lessons. Also, YouTube is your friend.

rednailz · 2013-12-13T23:20:44+00:00

I learned simply. Put on a dance song, nail your feet to the floor, then move your body to the beat. Once you've got the hang of that you can move your heels up and down in time with the beat. Do it one foot at a time. Look! You're dancing.

If you wanna get fancy and you have an Xbox you can buy Dance Central which will teach you a lot of moves.

Take a Zumba class. You dance in a group facing the instructor so no one is looking at you. You'll learn some moves and I guarantee there's hot girls there and almost zero guys.

Zunscriii · 2013-12-13T23:40:14+00:00

Forget dancing classes or asking people "how to dance".

The first thing you need to do is find out the reason why you can't dance. Lacking sense of rhythm or lacking confidence are the main issues I think. The first one is easily solved by listening to music alot and dancing alot. The second one is more difficult, you'll just have to get confident enough. I don't know how to do that, I was born with the confidence to dance.

Also, something thay may help is finding a genre that you like (preferably electronic) and go to a night of said genre. You might be able to dance to music that isn't shitty hands in the air pop music.

Happy dancing OP, losing yourself to a rhythm on the dancefloor is one of the best feelings =)

snwborder52 · 2013-12-14T22:48:25+00:00

Put on music at home that makes you want to move your booty
Move said booty
Do this everyday until you've developed your own style and moves.

The trick is then to be vulnerable doing this in front of others and tolerate the uncertainy of how they will react (aka being confident ;D). That just takes takes balls.

Dancing, like pretty much everything else, is about the intention behind the action. If you feel awkward you will be awkward. If you are confident nobody will give a fuck what you dance like.

helserikdomogfamilie · 2013-12-14T23:29:06+00:00

I'm joining dance classes asap.

2013-12-13T20:04:51+00:00

Gawthy. But whatever works, y'know?

Title	How do you dance?
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Date	December 13, 2013 2:40 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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