TED talk on attraction

daGrantHammer · 2013-12-22T20:04:57+00:00

This is too true. (Specifically the last half) it really resonated with me when she was talking about the "three children." In my LTR (recently ended) things started off great. We had fun together, had lots of great sex and I was the best shed ever had. I was proud of that and continued to mix things up and better my performance. The thing is, it fizzled. She would turn herself off, causing the sex to become less frequent and less fun. I became frustrated when not only the sex was shitty, but her bonding side overcame her desire to explore. We felt like a married couple. We'd make dinner and watch TV every damn day, not because something good was on, but because it was there.. I wanted to do more, to go out and have fun with my friends but she was dependent on me and would guilt trip me so I neglected my friends, my life and my element for her safety and well being. I was raised that way. I need to find a way to stifle that and chase what I desire rather than cater to those around me. I don't know how, but I'm gonna do it. Very eye opening talk, thanks OP for sharing.

Broasourus_Rex · 2013-12-22T06:57:36+00:00

Can i get a quick summary?

Gamma_Male_ · 2013-12-22T18:09:39+00:00

I don't think that's the best title for this talk. It's more about keeping sex life interesting in a LTR. It's not much about attraction.

AllyBloke · 2013-12-22T11:37:42+00:00

This is so good!

snwborder52 · 2013-12-23T03:39:02+00:00

Fantastic talk. Love the polarity between desire and love.

IbeShippin · 2013-12-23T01:22:11+00:00

have to watch this later

Gibly · 2013-12-22T18:45:17+00:00

Title	TED talk on attraction
Author	TheWambat
Upvotes	255
Comments	14
Date	December 22, 2013 6:19 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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