Came over my oneitis, found a new girl who is awesome and I love, how do i get further?

mindfully_liberated · 2014-01-04T02:55:59+00:00

Came over my oneitis,

found a new girl who is awesome and I love

lol, you sure about getting over oneitis, kid?

2014-01-04T17:32:27+00:00

You're not over your oneitis.

minimalize rejection

This is not your objective! You're acting needily, desperately seeking her approval and affection. That's the very definition of oneitis. Just switching girls doesn't get rid of the problem. One of the very best definitions of oneitis / neediness / the lack of an abudance mentality (which are all just branches of the same problem) I saw on this sub was "thinking you're limited to your female facebook friends and being really scared to have to cross one out of the list of potentials".

ask her if she wants to be my gf

Hah, how old are you buddy? You should ask her to hang out. If you know a nice spot around where you guys live to just sit and chill, that's perfect. No date, no movie, no dinner. Hug her and hold her hand when you meet. Be intimate, don't make small talk. Be honest, confident, and above all don't give a fuck too much if it doesn't pan out. There's plenty of fish in the sea. If you're going out of your way to do something which you think will please her and cause her to like you, it'll be transparent and unattractive.

what does kino mean though

Don't post topics on this sub without first reading the sidebar! There's lots of great content there.

Title	Came over my oneitis, found a new girl who is awesome and I love, how do i get further?
Author	Gibly
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	January 4, 2014 1:56 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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