What affirmations do you constantly remind yourself of? What works for you?

FlyingNarwhal · 2014-01-14T17:48:11+00:00

Pain is weakness leaving the body.

Muscle growth is in direct proportion to muscle irritation.

In tango, there are no wrong moves.

Dance to your partner's needs and experience level, not your own. when you dance, you dance for two people

Expect pain, expect resistance, expect resolve.

edit: If you don't have a damn good reason to not do it, just do it.

mindfully_liberated · 2014-01-14T23:13:17+00:00

The four agreements, practice these and your world will unfold before your eyes. Many many of you haven't been living/thinking free, you're all shackled to society's poison, which is precisely why you over think, put yourself down, or gain fear of an uncertain future (approach anxiety)

I am not the creator of this, so don't thank me, just pay it forward, you can buy the book on Amazon. It's not matter of whether it';ll change your life or not, it's whether you will apply it or not, because it will change your life.

Be Impeccable with Your Word

Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

Impeccable means “without sin” and a sin is something you do or believe that goes against yourself. It means not speaking against yourself, to yourself or to others. It means not rejecting yourself. To be impeccable means to take responsibility for yourself, to not participate in “the blame game.”

Regarding the word, the rules of “action-reaction” apply. What you put out energetically will return to you. Proper use of the word creates proper use of energy, putting out love and gratitude perpetuates the same in the universe. The converse is also true.

Impeccability starts at home. Be impeccable with yourself and that will reflect in your life and your relationships with others. This agreement can help change thousands of other agreements, especially ones that create fear instead of love.

Don't Take Anything Personally

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

We take things personally when we agree with what others have said. If we didn't agree, the things that others say would not affect us emotionally. If we did not care about what others think about us, their words or behavior could not affect us.

Even if someone yells at you, gossips about you, harms you or yours, it still is not about you! Their actions and words are based on what they believe in their personal dream.

Our personal “Book of Law” and belief system makes us feel safe. When people have beliefs that are different from our own, we get scared, defend ourselves, and impose our point of view on others. If someone gets angry with us it is because our belief system is challenging their belief system and they get scared. They need to defend their point of view. Why become angry, create conflict, and expend energy arguing when you are aware of this?

Don't Make Assumptions

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

When we make assumptions it is because we believe we know what others are thinking and feeling. We believe we know their point of view, their dream. We forget that our beliefs are just our point of view based on our belief system and personal experiences and have nothing to do with what others think and feel.

We make the assumption that everybody judges us, abuses us, victimizes us, and blames us the way we do ourselves. As a result we reject ourselves before others have the chance to reject us. When we think this way, it becomes difficult to be ourselves in the world.

Take action and be clear to others about what you want or do not want; do not gossip and make assumptions about things others tell you. Respect other points of view and avoid arguing just to be right. Respect yourself and be honest with yourself. Stop expecting the people around you to know what is in your head.

Always Do Your Best

Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

Doing your best means enjoying the action without expecting a reward. The pleasure comes from doing what you like in life and having fun, not from how much you get paid. Enjoy the path traveled and the destination will take care of itself.

Living in the moment and releasing the past helps us to do the best we can in the moment. It allows us to be fully alive right now, enjoying what is present, not worrying about the past or the future.

Have patience with yourself. Take action. Practice forgiveness. If you do your best always, transformation will happen as a matter of course.

ultrasuperthrowaway · 2014-01-14T20:29:23+00:00

Check if I still have my male anatomy, yes it's still there, I do the world a disservice by not using my machinery.

shadesof_gray · 2014-01-14T20:51:31+00:00

Nothing is a big deal. Happiness is a choice, choose to be happy regardless of circumstance. I choose to be polarizing in my interactions because it is efficient and I value my time.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-01-15T03:15:38+00:00

I deserve good things.
I am entitled to my share of happiness.
I refuse to beat myself up.
I am an attractive person.
I am fun to be with.
Because I'm good enough,
I'm smart enough,
and doggone it, people like me.

Moftem · 2014-01-14T18:20:06+00:00

Wow, she is a beauty. I'll just go over there and talk to her. She's just a regular woman. She's not dangerous. She's probably really nice as well. Regardless of whether I walk away with her number and plans for a date, I will still walk away feeling like a boss. I must focus on the learning process.

2014-01-14T18:54:37+00:00

I floss my teeth daily. Bitches love dental hygiene.

Alexfortomorrow · 2014-01-14T21:35:46+00:00

You want something? Go get it. Period.
If I won't do that, who will then?
I'm the motherfucking best of the best here, no one stands a chance.
Some might beat me at something, I'll outclass them in everything else.
If I accidentally get an unexpected result [read: fail], I won't give a fuck because I really don't give a single fuck.

It actually works, seriously.

carltondanks · 2014-01-15T00:26:38+00:00

I am awesome.

Shubrook · 2014-01-15T02:44:53+00:00

I'm having a great time.

motherfuckingasshole · 2014-01-14T19:50:46+00:00

I'm the baddest bitch.

Title	What affirmations do you constantly remind yourself of? What works for you?
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