Let's talk about persistence. How much is too much, How much is too little?

mindfully_liberated · 2014-01-23T22:38:14+00:00

If I text her, and she doesn't respond, fuck her. I'm not going after someone who isn't willing to give me a chance. I probably am not even sure about her either, but she can at least give a guy an honest chance or an honest goodbye.

2014-01-24T23:58:01+00:00

2 unanswered texts at least 24 hrs apart. After that, I'm out.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-01-24T02:06:29+00:00

For daygame the most important thing you need to know is that most of the time the girl will not make you "try harder". If she wasn't interested in you from the start then she won't be interested in you after an interaction with her. Therefore, if you chat it up and ask about her plans and try to get her number but she doesn't want to give it then she is not interested and you should move on. Asking again or trying to ask again later is not a good idea.

If you really want to tune your calibration then go out every couple days a week and run some daygame. Maybe try persisting a date a second time during the interaction and see how it goes. If she still rejects I wouldn't try to persist a third time because then that could be considered plain harassment. The best knowledge is experience though, you won't fully be able to understand this advice unless you've actually experienced it.

JesperSB_dk · 2014-01-24T09:58:35+00:00

I had that also when I started in PU, because if the girl was not acting interested in the first minute then I would eject. But I change it by saying. "You give every girl 5 minutes to make up her mind, and if the first think gets a weak response, then You change to something else." Maybe her cat just got run over, and she need 10 seconds to start focusing on you. First After 5 minutes, can you eject. That gives the girl time to either start to react, or walk away.

kardashian_pie · 2014-01-26T01:51:03+00:00

Be unpredictable while texting. Girls receive MANY texts from guys such as" wyd' or the worst one, "hey". Be creative! Have fun. Let her know your fun, corny, and yourself. Don't try to be "that guy", our world has way too many of those.

HappyJerk · 2014-01-24T00:23:00+00:00

The long story is my dad was a salesmen and never took no for an answer and it annoyed the living hell out of me when I would be telling him something and he would act oblivious to it.

Ok selling cars is not the same as getting girls to like you.

Title	Let's talk about persistence. How much is too much, How much is too little?
Author	throwaway59393
Upvotes	6
Comments	15
Date	January 23, 2014 10:25 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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