Killing Awkward Moments

puaCurveBall · 2014-02-21T00:20:30+00:00

Practice. You just aren't familiar with the situation.

Also, meditation. Focus on being present in the moment.

HappyJerk · 2014-02-21T01:19:50+00:00

Stop thinking you need to impress girls when you talk to them. Imagine they have to impress you.

FuturePUA90 · 2014-02-21T00:19:45+00:00

Usually, if I'm able to work up the balls to approach; I just cruise with the conversation. If I get too nervous, I'd tell her! And with many chicks at once, I'd just go up say "okay, nobody move!" Then the first girl that gives me eye contact, I just go "you, come here, whats you're name?" It's landslide from there.

Sky-Might-fall · 2014-02-21T03:34:08+00:00

The absolute best advice that has worked for me is to talk to everyone you see. Strike up conversations, it doesn't matter what they look like. It doesn't matter if they're girls. I doesn't even matter how old they are. You can tell how much easier it is to talk to girls after you have realized how easy it is to talk to just about anyone.

WhateverDudeFuckIt · 2014-02-21T13:29:56+00:00

It's only awkward if you feel like it's awkward. Your body reacts to your thoughts, so if you think about a situation in the perspective that it's awkward, it will be awkward. I feel like girls can tell when you're anxious and it turns them off. But if you're calm and mellow and not afraid of letting things be, then things are usually alright. Women wanna see that you're stable and consistent. They're lives are hectic and emotional, so they don't want more instability.

Can't win every time, so don't be afraid of failure. Instead learn from it.

kingcal · 2014-02-21T06:17:07+00:00

Own the awkward. Bathe in it. Don't speak. Make the other person break the silence.

aalewis____ · 2014-02-21T07:12:19+00:00

observe

FlashGordonn · 2014-02-21T08:15:26+00:00

If you absolutely have nothing to say (and this should happen less frequently as you get more practice), just tell them you've run out of things to say. And then just laugh and move on to something completely random.

Benstillerfagget · 2014-02-22T00:23:29+00:00

Practice. Also do some meditation!

Visualization beforehand works for me pretty well. Imagine yourself walking up, talking to a cute girl. Before you walk up, you can feel yourself get excited. You can feel yourself want to get up and talk to her. You can already tell that they are going to like you.

Also, you're fucking awesome. Just be yourself.

Bodegaz · 2014-02-22T05:37:39+00:00

I'm not that great at being social, but I rarely get awkward and I am really good at maintaining eye contact with men and women.

I was at school and bored/taking a break from assignment. I walked down the hall and saw a decently cute girl. I said "hello, how's it goin?". She replied "good" and gave me a weird look. I just stared at her, smiled, and said "you okay? *lol". She laughed and started telling me about her assignment and that she just needed to go for a walk and take a break.

Basically just call them out I guess? Like seriously.. What is so awkward with strangers approaching other strangers and chatting/become friends?

People need to break out of the norms.

Also chicks seem to think that if a guy approaches them, the guy is trying to get in her pants. Sometimes I just wanna be friends.

Title	Killing Awkward Moments
Author	Benstillerfagget
Upvotes	36
Comments	20
Date	February 21, 2014 12:01 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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