Hey guys,

Haven't done an FR on my newer account, so I figured I would help enlighten some on my experience yesterday.

A week ago, or so, I played this game called Hot or Not. It is an app like Tinder. She's cute, not hot, just cute. So this is not going to be some tale on how I nailed a 10 out of 10, a celebrity, or some pornstar.

She is a 1 on my scale of 1 or 0. Would fuck, would not.

When I first messaged her, I used my general template for speed responses. (Be direct, but not too direct, just move things on quickly when it comes to online dating. Let them absorb the moment and then live in it for as long as they can before that flair is up).

Me: "Hey what's up" Them: "Hey nothing much, you" Me: "<Insert what I am doing>, and then to speed up the process I say something along the lines of asking what would be their most interesting or unique characteristic.

I don't want to go too long with this as, this is a FR on the actual date itself.

Moving forward; we meet up at her place. It was a bit of a drive, but oh so worth it. I introduce myself, shake her hand. She moves into my car and I tell her "Have you ever been to the Hollywood sign". She responds with a yes, and their I precede to ask if she would like to do something even more daring such as touching the sign. (Women and girls LOVE adventures and dangerous activities, IF you can appear to be a person she knows that can protect her when needed. This is done by appearing as most would say is alpha. Be confident and cool, like nothing bothers or escapes you).

So we go to the Hollywood sign, it is night time, and in the car I engaged in some deep conversations immediately. Ask her about her worst and best relationship, weirdest sex act if she does not mind sharing. I also managed to pull the whole "Want to see a magic trick, lay your hand on my hand", and from there I held it. Great way to initiate easy physical contact.

As we are moving our way to the adventure, I realize I need more physical contact before I move in for the kiss. Ask her if she's strong, she responds with a yes, I slowly put my hands on her shoulder, and lightly jump on her back, she responds by carrying me. Another easy physical contact.

She gets cold, I hand her my jack, put my arm around her, pull her close. I turn her around, look at her, as if I am about to kiss her, but then I look up at the moon, mention it's beauty and we continue on.

Fast forward. Blip boop beep. Walking back to my car, still holding her. I then precede to say "Hey wait, I have to see something important. Turn her around and go in for the kiss. She responds, we make out alot. I then respond "Wow, that was as magical as I figured it would be." She melts (not literally). (After making a bold move and being successful, always reinforce it and give her comfort that you enjoyed it on a level both physical and emotional. Helps with resistance in the future.

We then precede to do stuff in my car. Both clean and nasty.

Now the points I want to stress:

  1. Physical contact is NEEDED. NEVER, EVER, EVER, go out with a girl/guy without establishing contact throughout the night.

  2. No small talk. Bring up deep conversations. Get to REALLY know her essence, not the shallow things on the surface. Girls love it. Don't know why, sorry.

  3. Be bold. Women love boldness. Fact. Not pushy. Bold and confident, as if, even if it went wrong, it would all be fine and dandy.

  4. Linguistic ability. Speak slowly, calmly, cool. It helps get from A to Z, ALOT.

End of the Night: REINFORCE YOUR DATE. I told her she is amazing. I am not looking for commitment at the moment, but if I were, it would be with her. Mean it. Reinforce that she was not a quick hookup. That she is worth more to you, then even you realize.

Dropped her off, told her I had an enchanting time. Told her to text me before she goes to bed.

Fast Forward. We are now friends with benefits.

I hope someone was able to take some stuff away from this.