Can guys wing for girls?

mmmmm2222 · 2014-03-31T06:36:01+00:00

i've seen it tried, i've never seen it work. i've had guys try to wing for a girl that wanted to get with me (it's usually a gay friend) and i just found it annoying.

well i guess i fucked this girl once because her friend told me she liked me but that didn't really do her any good.

Apex_of_Attraction · 2014-03-31T09:50:40+00:00

Guys and girls can wing together by having either one open new groups with the pretense of "just being social". Because it's a guy/girl combo, the new girls in the group are less on edge (and I guess it also introduces pre-selection for the guy). The best thing I can think for a guy to do is to help open sets with guys she's interested. That way the girl doesn't have to do cold-approach. Darragh, Apex of Attraction www.apexofattraction.com

lord_of_vader · 2014-04-01T13:31:40+00:00

It's easy as fuck is what it is.

I wing for my two girlfriends all the time. One is straight, so we go out and she says "that guy". I walk up, bullshit with him, find out who he's gaming (if anyone) and if he's still on the fence, I just say "my friend over here wants to meet you" then I drop him off at the table while I go outside to catch a dart or go get another drink.

My other friend is gay, so helping her pick up is really, really hard. Lesbian girls don't trust straight guys at all, so you have to be seen with your friend first. They usually figure out why I'm there, so once we get past that awkward "what the fuck is this guy doing in a gay bar" thing, it's all cake from there and I imagine my friend takes the girls home and scissors the fuck out of them.

creatio_exnihilo · 2014-03-31T06:11:32+00:00

Is your friend reasonably attractive?

Dantilli · 2014-03-31T12:25:14+00:00

Well obviously you can help with isolating the guys she wants to speak to and introducing her into sets she might otherwise avoid. But the biggest thing you could do is tell her when the guy is actually into her, let her know how things are going from your point of view if you can. The biggest problem for pretty much anyone is leaving a set too early because they're discouraged, this applies to women too.

Help her to relax, get her to have fun, help her approach sets and stop her from leaving a set when the guy is obviously interested (unless of course she doesn't like him, but that's a given, right?).

atypicalwhiteguy · 2014-03-31T15:06:04+00:00

Yes, I've been that guy, repeatedly (I love having a wing girl, so I reciprocate). The girls I've winged for are limited mostly by their approach anxiety. In my experience, it's enough to open for her, though not with "my friend thinks you're cute" or something like that which, as a guy, I hate having done to me (high investment, moment-ruining, lame). Comment on a common thread, throw out a cheers if you're at a bar, whatever, as long as you're high energy (not to sound like I'm coaching you on how to approach guys, ha). Anyways, "spot" her, or have her come up and "find you" (both being enthusiastic, keeping the mood up, etc.) and introduce her. If he's interested, all you can do from there is not get in their way.

Is this guaranteed to work? No, but I've had it work more often than not. Anyway, seduction is about increasing odds, not about the outcome of any single interaction. I try to remove what I see as the most limiting factor in her game. If your friend doesn't have the same issue, identify hers and go from there.

Mightyobnoxious · 2014-03-31T16:40:21+00:00

I don't think so. No. It sends the wrong vibe. I mean, men will view it differently. And btw, why do a girl need a wing anyway? Old fashioned and all but if a guy is attractive and confident enough, he will approach you or try to.

Slut1 · 2014-03-31T17:35:10+00:00

I winged for a girlfriend, shes HB7, we walked up I started to banter then when the mood was a bit sexual by something I said, I take a step back and say something like this "you should kiss" like its the best idea I ever had in my whole life, I mean I wouldnt pass a chance like that to #close a HB7 randomly.

Sorry for my english.

SingAlong_Original · 2014-03-31T22:40:25+00:00

Definitely, being with her alone adds value to her.

Title	Can guys wing for girls?
Author	sixsidepentagon
Upvotes	9
Comments	10
Date	March 31, 2014 5:33 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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