Acting strange when passing by the hot girls in the street? Don't know how to react, when to make eye contact? How to fix this?

ComfortableComa · 2014-03-31T07:04:54+00:00

Take it one step at a time.

Step 1: Eye contact, make eye contact with her whilst walking.

Step 2: Hold eye contact the whole time, only she is allowed to look away. (Quick tip smile while you do this, or even smirk like your thinking of her sexually)

Step 3: Check her out while she is looking in an obvious way. Then make eye contact. Same rule as step 2.

Each step puts you out of your comfort zone in comparison to the previous. Get to 10 reps of step 3 and tell me your still nervous. I dare you.

2014-03-31T15:20:17+00:00

No matter how hot you think she is, somewhere there's some guy that's sick of her shit.

What's your goal in all this behavior? Do you just want to look cool? Stop it. You either look cool or you don't, and actively trying to look cool plants you firmly in the latter. Are you trying to talk to her? You're not going have that happen by just making eye contact and expecting her to come hither.

The easiest way to fix this is to stop doing it exclusively for pretty girls. Make eye contact with everyone as you're walking down the street (or at least all the women). Smile. I don't care if she's a Bantha, look every girl in the eyes and smile at her. You're smiling because you're awesome and having a good time, not because of her. You have to make it part of your normal and natural behavior.

Perfectz · 2014-03-31T19:35:44+00:00

I had this problem when I began as well. I read a book the 4 hour work week and it mentioned a comforted challenge that improved this over time I added my own twist and now I put my friends trying to learn sharper skills through it, and when I feel ocular-ly shy put myself back through it.

Buy a pair of sunglasses and for 2 weeks go to the mall food court or another public place and practice staring everyone who walks by in the eyes. They won't be able to tell if you are staring right at them because of the glasses and you can just say oh I thought I saw a friend I knew behind you if they stop you.

After 2 weeks do the same thing without the sunglasses for a week and if stopped tell people that they remind you of a friend you have and it weird-ed you out.

Then the last week stop 5 people a day with a light attitude and say I know we just meet but staring contest go... and then just stare if they react negatively laugh and keep walking if not go for it, after that training usually you will stop giving a fuck about what people think of your strong eye contact.

tell me if this post helped and if your in ATL drop me a line we'll go out

thaway314156 · 2014-03-31T15:40:05+00:00

I think Gambler (look up his videos) say, hot girls are used to getting stared at, the secret to attract her attention would be to not notice her. Then she'd be intrigued "Wait, I'm hot shit, why doesn't this guy care?". Then at the last moment stop and talk to her (Here's where my plan would blow up: I forget what he said you should do at the last moment).

mmmmm2222 · 2014-03-31T16:13:34+00:00

you should always be acting cool. like if you're slouching and a hot chick walks by, you could stand up, but you've sort of already lost.

so get your shit together so you feel confident walking around, then when a hot chick passes by you won't feel the need to change much. then you can just give her eye contact and it's that simple.

Title	Acting strange when passing by the hot girls in the street? Don't know how to react, when to make eye contact? How to fix this?
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Date	March 31, 2014 6:54 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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