How can I find a party/social event to meet people at?

BlueIsStylinOnYou · 2014-04-14T21:54:19+00:00

Go to the one club in your town. It may not be the best, but it's a great place to start knowing people and begin #closing to expand your social circle.

BlazeThatMage420 · 2014-04-15T01:08:47+00:00

"Yeah I'm stoked for the summer dude I've been wanting to go to a good party. You heard of any coming up?"

Usually I just check Facebook tho people post them

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-04-15T04:30:17+00:00

Throw a party of your own.

roccodai1 · 2014-04-15T01:06:10+00:00

alright, this I can relate to, I wish I was as social on my freshman year as I had become by my final year.

seek out groups in college, there should be an asian/japanese club or latin language club....you may think these clubs are for nerds, but there will be a lot of people ( and girls) over there, some pretty good looking ones too if that is what you are worried about.....a book reading club, a climbing club etc would have worked ......i have seen a classmate of mine hook up with a girl he met at an anime club, and she was really cute .....all this aside, you should try and talk to more people, for example, the girl at the library counter etc - talking is hard for me also, but, even if you give a little effort here and there, it gets easier. You sound exactly like how I was back in college and i STILL have problems talking to people, but it's a huge improvement from the shut-in computer geek I used to be, in a college town of 50,000 people.

One thing good about college is : it is the one place in a public setting with tons and tons of girls. With a little bit of thinking and enough effort in the proper direction you will get what you want.

Edit: as far as clubs go, you can meet girls there , but, also join the aforementioned cultural/book clubs where you actually meet girls ( I am assuming you want to meet girls more than just meet people in general).....also skip out on mma club because, although mma will whip you into shape there arent enough girls there. Also, dont join the Computer Science/Programming/Engineering clubs ....join one that has atleast 50% girls in it

Edit 2: if drinking is not a problem for you, get some of the people you know ( who also know some girls) together for something, and bring beer ....eventually their girlfriends will bring in their own female friends ........most people in college would love to get together over a few beers/vodka /whatever you kids drink these days

EliahtheMessiah · 2014-04-15T11:38:16+00:00

Make popular guy friends
Go to the club, it's better than they say
Just join someone sitting on the campus lawn, and just be like "Omg, I'm so tiered, mind if I chill here for just a sec?"

2014-04-15T23:19:45+00:00

Facebook seriously.

If you go to a large state university, then there will be multiple Facebook groups named Events + Parties etc... People post their parties everyone once in a while.

Do you have a lot of FB friends who go out a lot? Many events will have Friends of Friends invited and will show if one of yours is going. It doesn't show up as a notification for you, but your events calender should still list it.

Again, if you live in a college town, then you will probably see people walking around in the neighborhoods around 10PM-12AM. Follow some of them into a house. Likely, most people will not care or notice if you don't know anyone else. HOWEVER, avoid small gatherings of people and Fraternities. It'll be awkward when you enter a place and start drinking when everyone knows you're a randomer who showed up.

**Fraternities vary because some invite non-greek affiliated while others keep it in house and mix with sororities. You're better with not entering them on the safe side.

BlueIsStylinOnYou · 2014-04-15T00:00:47+00:00

Just ask people if they could invite you to a party because you'd like to start going to som

Title	How can I find a party/social event to meet people at?
Author	anewman1993
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Date	April 14, 2014 9:49 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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