Im a nice guy, but not in the desperate obsessive nice guy. I've officially gotten in the middle of " nice guy but asshole assertive " and G-d has it been paying off for the past 2 years.

Today I went around just complimenting people. Sounds cheesy, but it was nice to give people a GENUINE compliment, and after not masturbating for about 6 months, I noticed that women actually try hard to look beautiful for not only us men but for the world in general. I ended up complimenting a girl who was wearing an awesome fedora. ( I know you guys shun fedoras but when a girl wears one and can rock it..... my god ) The girl initiated the conversation by telling me thank you so much, she liked my suit and that she was having a shitty day but I ended up brightening it up today. It felt great not only cause i have a date with her tomorrow, but because I was able to be myself to make someone HAPPY, build report with them and then schedule a date all without the back of my head thought " dude you gotta fuck her dude you got to ". Lately everything i've been doing, every girl i've approached, every hour I've spent has been purposeful. It feels pretty good and I want to thank you guys. Thank you so much for not only giving me the push to find myself but giving me the tools to do so.