For example: Meet a girl, become friends, I feel the urge to be their "favorite person" and am insecure in the fact that they'll find someone else to replace me. It's not necessarily needy where I'm gonna sacrifice my thoughts or actions or do anything to make them like me more but I still feel that sensation that I NEED to be their favorite and need to get that validated. I don't know how to let this go. This also leaks into my regular friendships. I'm assuming it's some type of attachment issue but if anyone has dealt w this and solved it, it would help me out a lot.