Help getting over looking young/being short

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-06-01T21:30:38+00:00

Get used to who you are. If you try to dress older, or look taller, I guarantee it is only drawing attention to the fact you think you need to be older or taller. It is incongruent with who you really are.

Cobynguyens · 2014-06-01T22:48:30+00:00

Be confident as you can be and then add 150 more feet to that bro. I'm asian 21 M and 5'3 with shoes on. Haha. I have mad inner game! Why, because I have accepted that I am forever going to be a short asian guy. What makes me fearless is that, my confidence is so fucking high that it makes me taller. Big things come in small packages.

joshsway · 2014-06-02T00:05:14+00:00

I'm 5'8". hasn't stopped me from banging dozens of girls who are taller than me. My site has a few articles on dating taller women you can check out, but one of the main tips that many shorter guys forget is: DON'T BRING UP HEIGHT, EVER.

RishFush · 2014-06-01T20:44:28+00:00

You have to accept your height, you can't change that. Hating yourself for something you can't change is needless suffering for the rest of your life.

And for the age thing, take it as a compliment. I look 6 years younger than I really am because I am extremely healthy.

But if the age comments are actually from a lack of emotional maturity, you need to be more internally validated and grounded in your own values and beliefs. Reflect on your past, have a plan for your future, and then just do your best in whatever situation you find yourself in.

Rae212 · 2014-06-01T22:30:44+00:00

"We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand."

Accept you for you, and don't ever compare yourself to anybody. So what if you are 5'7 and look young, just be yourself and have a freakin' good time. Because at the end of the day, if you are having a good time that's all that matters, and its their loss if they don't join your party.

enriquex · 2014-06-02T02:07:37+00:00

Welcome to the manlet club. Only thing we have going for us is we can look muscular easier then our taller brethren. Go to the gym, get shredded. Your jawline will look more muscular plus girls like jacked guys anyway.

Indianbro · 2014-06-02T03:49:21+00:00

Hit the gym and pump some iron. You will be huge when it counts.

mindfully_liberated · 2014-06-02T15:57:54+00:00

Jump up all those girls that are 5 4 and shorter. That's all.

You're not going to be able to get girls taller than you. Accept that. You may get a few, but don't let the ones that don't explicitly take you down.

I'll bet you 500$, no holds bars, straight up, that there are shorties giving you looks and you're missing it cuz you're so stressed up about the taller girls not giving you looks.

It's pretty plain and simple, generally girls like guys that are taller than them, so you're pretty much in with every girl 5 5 and under. Get on with it already.

J_A_B_88 · 2014-06-02T21:15:33+00:00

5'7" isn't short. I'm only 5'8" and for a while I thought no girl would be interested in me because of my height. What helped is knowing that there is no procedure to change that, and if a girl can't respect your height, or dislikes you because of your height, that is their problem/taste. It is their personal preference. Why hate yourself over genetics?

I'm almost 22, but I've been told I look like I'm 17-18. Think of it as a positive attribute. In 10 years, You will look younger than most guys your age. You may have an advantage while trying to get with younger/sexier woman because of this

DaygameCoach · 2014-06-01T23:39:45+00:00

It's all about confidence.

Besides, if you are in a bar, you are at least 21. :) How long ago did you graduate college? I'm asking for a reason.

2014-06-01T20:07:18+00:00

Dress really mature. Glasses.

PyramldHEAD · 2014-06-01T19:00:46+00:00

Facial hair.

Title	Help getting over looking young/being short
Author	qwertyred
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	June 1, 2014 6:52 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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