How to deal with someone hitting on your girl while your not there?

breadninja · 2014-06-13T15:59:14+00:00

If your girl is attractive, she's going to get hit on. Don't get jealous because of that...

Chocolate_Slug · 2014-06-13T16:18:27+00:00

She needs to know the boundaries of the relationship. Either work on getting comfortable with it or work on her handling it in a way that makes you comfortable. Don't torture yourself.

sedditforthewin · 2014-06-13T18:16:25+00:00

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Fuzzy_Logik · 2014-06-13T17:41:18+00:00

She said "no I don't want to make things awkward and he doesn't mean it he just flirts with everyone."

This is a poor excuse.

She can either respect you and the relationship she is in with you, or she will not respect you and therefor can fuck off.

MasonJarTeaDrinker · 2014-06-13T17:17:30+00:00

Well, if you're not there then she needs to learn how to handle it. She should tell him "Yea, I'm up for it, my BF loves the beach" or whatever other venue that douche is inviting her to.

She know's this dude is flirting with her, hopefully she's not going a long with it. That's the price you gotta pay when you got a hot GF though, just don't get all needy and jealous, girls hate that shit and it makes you look really unattractive.

Just be confident in yourself and know that if she fucks up, she's gonna be missing out on you, not the other way around.

joshsway · 2014-06-13T17:59:43+00:00

It depends. I would have a conversation about it if it bothers you. My ex-gfs ex kept trying to hang out with her and it was obvious he was just trying to get back together with her, so i told her to choose. It's disrespectful in my opinion for her to blatantly go out with guys who are trying to hit on her, so tell her how you feel. Honestly, she may not even have a problem saying no and won't necessarily think you are controlling or jealous.

Climbup21 · 2014-06-13T22:15:06+00:00

Look at it this way. When people hit on my girlfriend I take it as the ultimate compliment. I trust her to not sleep around on me. it makes her feel good about her self and it reminds me to not take her for granted.

yokhai · 2014-06-13T21:12:37+00:00

Think about what you could do. You going to fight the guy hitting on your girlfriend? Are you going to complain to her about something she has no control of?

Dude let it go. There is nothing to gain by trying to do anything.

Qvanta · 2014-06-13T20:30:50+00:00

Do you trust her? If not, is this an issue on your lap, like previous relationships?

If not, then she isnt taking the situation seriously. You should remind her then of what it is you two have :)

bigblackdikk · 2014-06-14T05:57:41+00:00

Be flattered, find an occasion to buy the guy a drink when you're all out, then wing him a girl. He'll respect you and be busy with another girl and stop bothering yours.

Indianbro · 2014-06-15T01:36:16+00:00

Tell yo b*tch she's out of line....not being loyal

helander · 2014-06-13T17:54:25+00:00

You need to stop giving a fuck. Shes her own person and not a possession,she can do whatever the fuck she wants, with whoever the fuck she wants, whenever the fuck she wants. If you cant trust her then why are you in a relationship with her?

Title	How to deal with someone hitting on your girl while your not there?
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Upvotes	13
Comments	24
Date	June 13, 2014 3:07 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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