After kissing her at a party, is it needy and desperate to hold hands with her for the rest of the night?

Raccoo · 2014-06-29T23:02:55+00:00

Yeah, its needy

adamsmith93 · 2014-06-30T01:56:48+00:00

What in the flying fuck did I just read.

ArtilleryCamel · 2014-06-30T01:06:37+00:00

Yes, its needy.

No, you're not a couple. Especially if you met the same day.

If she kissed you tonight don't be surprised if she kisses someone else tomorrow. It may have been different in previous generations but our generation is not so traditional or monogamous.

2014-06-30T03:03:16+00:00

Are you 14? This sounds like a 14 year old's question

throwdownthegauntlet · 2014-06-30T00:12:49+00:00

The fact that you are overthinking it this much is needy. Do what you feel like. If you wanna put an arm around her, fine. If you wanna hold her hand, fine. But if you're stuck in your head trying to calculate every action then that's needy. Get out of your head and enjoy the night and the girl.

2014-06-30T02:31:15+00:00

Came here to say yes, saw this:

In other words, should I assume we are a couple? it's like a date.

Hell no, you're not a couple. No, it's nothing like a date, nor does one date make you a couple even if it was.

Beregondo · 2014-06-30T02:58:36+00:00

If you are over the age of 13, it's needy and you're not a couple.

Heyoka7 · 2014-06-30T01:54:00+00:00

If I fucked her in the other room id come back and give her space. Holding hands deters other females.

boxofrabbits · 2014-06-30T02:49:45+00:00

Just be cool man, be cool.

MacFatty · 2014-06-30T04:33:53+00:00

Even if she was your girlfriend, dont go around holding her hand at a party, its a fucking buzzkill.

eaallday10 · 2014-06-30T06:01:01+00:00

lmao im crying!!

big_bav · 2014-06-30T01:10:25+00:00

Takarov · 2014-06-30T04:17:49+00:00

It's not like a date and don't assume that she's still attraction after one night.

doodlebunny · 2014-06-30T08:40:03+00:00

seriously kid, you have not been going out as much as you think you do. Making out/kissing does not automatically make you a couple. try asking her out again say for a coffee or a movie (just do something wholesome and sober) NOW, THAT'S A DATE. And yes, do not assume you are already a couple!

readyforlaunch · 2014-06-30T14:01:00+00:00

The bolded words doe.

2014-06-30T04:49:40+00:00

Chances that OP is a 14 year-old bundle of sticks?

theking2014 · 2014-06-29T23:03:29+00:00

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Mrmattnikko · 2014-06-30T04:45:38+00:00

I'm not even that old, and that looks really childish. You're not a couple. It's not a date in any sort of way. Yes, it is very needy.

theking2014 · 2014-06-30T14:04:44+00:00

wtf did I just read? After you kiss a girl you assume you're a couple? What are you 5?

You can fuck a girl for two hours after the party too, you're still not a couple. You're a couple when both of you decide to label yourselves a couple.

The party isn't like a date either, you had a good connection which means you built rapport and kiss closed. Good job, but…seriously are you 12 or something? I have the creeping feeling that you are not old enough to be on here at all.

joshsway · 2014-06-30T18:57:31+00:00

Is this a real post?

shitsfuckedupalot · 2014-06-30T04:08:37+00:00

not too needy, just play it cool. you dont win shit by kissing someone. you may have won the battle but you didnt win the war

Title	After kissing her at a party, is it needy and desperate to hold hands with her for the rest of the night?
Author	theking2014
Upvotes	18
Comments	30
Date	June 29, 2014 10:45 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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