I'm trying to build up qualifying questions to have in my pocket that don't sound weird, corny, cheesy. I think that the general "What do you do for fun?" and "What are your interests?" and "What are you passionate about" sound a little desperate, unimaginative.

Here's a couple, I'd love to hear what other ideas you guys have:

1) (Grab her hands) you're not one of those girls that gets mani-pedis every week, are you? Let me examine...

2) So I'm a huge fitness freak. Obviously you do something to stay in shape, so what is it?

Having trouble coming up with other ones, help me out...