How can I show a younger lady (19) that I am not really looking for a relationship but would be down for other things? I want to avoid womanizing.

throwawhey115 · 2014-09-12T13:51:28+00:00

Honesty. Don't want to give her false hope.

Banana_Slut · 2014-09-12T15:16:29+00:00

You can't apologise for what you really want. Be honest about your intentions, if you just wanna fuck, then you need to explain that to her.

joshsway · 2014-09-12T20:03:13+00:00

You don't have to say anything unless she brings it up. She is 19, why would you assume that she is looking for something serious?

tramplemestilsken · 2014-09-12T20:29:19+00:00

"I just got out of a pretty serious 5 year relationship and I'm not sure what I want right now. I like spending time with you, I would like to continue to spend time with you while I figure things out, but I just want to be honest with you about where I'm at. I can't commit to anyone right now." It's up to her to do what she wants from there.

DaygameCoach · 2014-09-12T15:49:21+00:00

I thought I commented on this. hmm. Say that you aren't looking for anything serious right now, but you should have done that early on, before you slept with her. And don't treat her like a GF. I go into it in more detail in this article about serious vs casual:

http://www.daygamer.net/2012/07/06/how-to-get-the-right-girlguy-communication-skills-101/.

Title	How can I show a younger lady (19) that I am not really looking for a relationship but would be down for other things? I want to avoid womanizing.
Author	SamuelStephenBono
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	September 12, 2014 1:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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