So finaly worked out what iev been doing wrong (pretty sure, but have said it before) for nine months that have basicly made every girl ditch me and stop replying to texts after the first date (only maybe two have made it too the second). However after being ditched in this same fashion after just getting back into game after being sick for quite a while, by three what seemed like VERY interested girls to the point one of them asked me out im feeling like complete shit.

From my point of view I just setup the first girl in years I actualy had feelings for (dated for a month, didnt work out, stayed close friends) to a mate of mine who also does game, in some attempt to make her happy at my own expense. Iev failed to pickup on what I was doing wrong for nine months which has seen me just mindlessly date girl after girl, and literally get know were plus im still not sure if what I think im doing wrong is actualy what im doing wrong. With the latest one being as i said before being ditched by being ignored texting, by three initialy very interested girls.

Im not trying to rant or ask for some magic cure, im looking for some method/idea/activity that will get rid of this sinking/depressed/self pitty/annoyed/angry at myself feeling so I can move on, keep doing game and try to sort what im fucking up at out. Iev already done the obvious (partied although got weirdly ditched there aswell, caught up with best mates, had a laugh and a BBQ) but as soon as its over I just feel like shit again.

TLDR: 9months of fuck ups, only just learnt what im doing wrong after being ditched after first date every time, just ditched by three girls all at once, cant get rid of horrible feeling in order to move on and try to develop at pickup.