Something I thought I would share with all you guys (and girls).
I was reading my Management book, and one statement really popped up in my head that's stuck with me for a long time: "It's easier to remove things that are stopping you from succeeding than trying to motivate yourself to do something". In a nutshell the statement says in order to achieve a goal, it's more effective to get yourself away from the things holding you back rather than trying to motivate yourself even more.
This statement relates to seduction in many ways. For example, instead of trying to motivate yourself into a mindset of approaching women, just focus on getting out of the "rejection" mindset. Instead of eating less junk food, avoid it in the first place by not buying it. This not only applies to seduction, but also in your success in life in general.
My example: I met a good friend my 1st year of college. I didn't know any better with girls, so I did what he did to achieve a 3 year relationship. It never worked (They also broke up my 2nd year of college). I discovered The Game towards the end of my 2nd year, and my friend got really upset - accusing me of a player/womanizer. My 3rd year of college I decided to distance myself away from him after finding out he was super needy with girls. That year, I started having real success - kissing more girls, genuine conversations, true feelings, etc. Moral of the story: I took myself away from the negative influence instead of trying to motivate myself through it.
Hope you guys enjoy this!
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