In the back of my mind, I always think a girl won't be interested in me because of my ethnicity. Thus ruining my confidence.

SinSlayer · 2014-09-24T06:21:47+00:00

Yeah... cuz no one likes a sexy Latin man. You ever hear of Antonio Banderas?

2014-09-24T12:48:57+00:00

Embrace your ethnicity.

IntensePancakes · 2014-09-24T04:24:52+00:00

Some people here will tell you that ethnicity doesn't matter. However, in the world we live in, it does. That's the truth. It's true, some girls don't like hispanic guys. However, some girls don't like white guys. Some girls don't like black guys. Some girls like ONLY hispanic guys. Your ethnicity is something that can hurt or help you. But that's just the way it is, and you can't change it, so you might as well own it. Confidence is more attractive than any ethnicity.

And for what it's worth, at least in American culture, being hispanic actually IS viewed as sexy by many people. Latin men are seen as masculine and desirable. It's not something that should throw your confidence off. If we're being honest here, there are other ethnicities that are much more detrimental for attracting women than hispanic. You're completely fine.

RandianHero · 2014-09-24T05:19:00+00:00

It's 2014, son. The people who actually give a shit about that sort of thing are very much in the minority. And to be honest, even if they did care, you're not going to get as much shit for being Hispanic as you would for being black, Middle-Eastern, or even Asian. Hispanic is practically white by bigot standards -- especially if you talk without an accent.

So relax. Go out and talk to whoever you want. The ones who disregard people because of their race are ones you wouldn't want to associate with anyway, and they wouldn't be even if you were a race they liked.

bl1y · 2014-09-24T14:57:12+00:00

If you can't change it, it doesn't matter.

/thread

nuuance · 2014-09-24T15:14:54+00:00

...these posts...seriously...

2014-09-24T16:17:34+00:00

Mark Manson wrote about how not giving in to the stereotypes of your ethnicity is seen as interesting and attractive, so give that a thought.

Title	In the back of my mind, I always think a girl won't be interested in me because of my ethnicity. Thus ruining my confidence.
Author	Caoa14396
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	September 24, 2014 4:07 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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