Watching some videos on How to Win Friends and influence People, and I saw this section. Just thought this would help some newbies out.

Appreciation

  • Sincere

  • From the Heart

  • Unselfish

  • Admired

Flattery

  • Insincere

  • From the teeth

  • Selfish

  • Condemned

With this stuff being said, when making a genuine compliment to a girl instead of saying "I like your dress" instead try "I like how your dress matches your eyes". It shows you're more observing rather than just trying to get into her pants.

Hope this helped!