Is attraction natural or generated?

pureimpurity · 2014-11-06T01:39:36+00:00

Abundance mentality, my friend. Move on, and do yourself and her a favor. You're obviously not feelin' it, and you'd be wasting your time. Go after girls you actually like. Challenge yourself. Get rejected and learn.

SinSlayer · 2014-11-06T00:56:23+00:00

Generated. Bottomline, there are always going to be people in the world that just dont "do it" for you. While their personality can be an attractive aspect of who they are, at the end of the day, they still wont turn you on physically

_Brimstone · 2014-11-06T01:39:48+00:00

Natural. Mate selection is a proxy by which genomes select compatible genomes with which to reproduce and the definition of what is and what is not a suitable mate has been programmed into you ever since you were just a blastula. The consciousness judges genetic fitness through certain physical queues such as body symmetry, skin complexion, overall fitness, smell, etc. We seek out mates with as similar a genome to our own, excepting the genes which determine the immune system. If someone has the same immune-system genes as us, they won't smell right and attraction will not be given.

Of course, there are always exceptions and free will complicates things. People force themselves to do all sorts of crazy things.

lofiharvest · 2014-11-06T02:21:37+00:00

Its natural to generate attraction ;)

WhosCountin · 2014-11-06T18:52:33+00:00

MOVE ON. I did this when I was younger and it ended up being the most fucked-up relationship ever. So much cognitive dissonance and self-respect issues... Just don't. Find a girl you're attracted to. Don't even consider this girl for a second.

metshower · 2014-11-06T13:53:36+00:00

Even if you do get into a relationship with her, she will eventually realize you're utterly needy and desperate, she will resent you for getting into a relationship with her and will break up with you (if she has any self-respect.)

What's even more crucial, is that other girls will be able to smell your desperation (even if they didn't know about your ugly girlfriend) because your own brain now knows that you're willing to stoop low for the sake of sex/relationship and you will give yourself away.

There are some specific cases where the benefits may outweigh the costs. E.g. you're virgin and that's Really messing your game and you just want to get that out of the way. ... Just be aware that your self-esteem is going to be taking a hit.

Title	Is attraction natural or generated?
Author	heretogetbetter
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	November 6, 2014 12:39 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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