So I [26 f] was raised mostly by my dad and big brother and I struggle with the idea that my perspective on life might be heavily biased towards a mans point of view.

I have the gym body and a decent education. I have a good job and am passionate about my hobbies. On the surface, its great, I'm independent and capable. But the more I read about evolutionary psychology and gender roles, the more I think that these qualities are more valuable as a guy than as a girl and Im worried I could scare away potentially really awesome men.

I want to bring out my feminine side, but I am at a loss, so I was hoping someone could tell me the qualities they like in a woman or the things that tend to induce 'one-itis' in a guy. A few pointers on what to avoid would also be a big help.

Thanks guys.