Question for the women of Reddit: What makes you text a guy only to not reply? (Guys should give input too)

-DoubleNegative- · 2015-02-07T05:24:44+00:00

Replying with "what happened?" immediately reverts the conversation her having to explain herself. It puts her on the defence and there's no fun in that.. Sorry. - Male

unpossibru · 2015-02-07T05:31:43+00:00

You shouldn't have asked what happened, that seems a little needy. Just play it cool next time.

Sathyamate · 2015-02-07T05:21:34+00:00

She probably just wanted to see your reaction. Honestly, you're better off leaving girls that play games like that alone. There are plenty of sane girls that aren't going to try and toy with guys given the chance.

Aredreddit · 2015-02-07T08:40:46+00:00

You should have moved past the thought of her not replying, by stating that her lack of communication before was on your mind you've said that it's a big deal to you. It suggests to her that you don't have much else going on in your life. Instead you could have sent a light hearted text to make her think that when she communicates with you that you will be fun to talk to.

That said, fair dos, you called her out on her lack of effort and have said that you're not going to put her pussy on a pedestal. What I would do is move on to the next lass and put this down to experience.

Aredreddit · 2015-02-07T18:38:04+00:00

The truth will be harsh so I hope you're ready. She has you on the hook, meaning that she keeps you around for when she's feeling needy. I would move on she is not going to be into you. She will only come to you when she needs attention and wants to feel good about herself. I am sorry for the harshness of this and hope I have not offended you.

xau-the-tau · 2015-02-07T22:21:39+00:00

Two magic words when someone isn't texting back, "You're shit" followed up by the cherry on the cake "Just kidding"

ThePUA_Baddie · 2015-02-07T16:33:51+00:00

You're over thinking it. Have you asked her out yet? If you haven't, text her and invite her out immediately. Once you know if she likes you or not you can proceed from there. Stop investing in texts if you don't know if she actually likes you yet

Aredreddit · 2015-02-10T01:30:40+00:00

I had a girl doing this shit to me. I finally called her on her bullshit and told her even if we are to be friends, her saying stuff then not responding isn't very friendly.

TonyDAbsolute · 2015-02-07T05:24:01+00:00

This is like asking a fish why it swims. Read this. http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/girl-isnt-texting-back/

Title	Question for the women of Reddit: What makes you text a guy only to not reply? (Guys should give input too)
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Upvotes	3
Comments	26
Date	February 7, 2015 5:08 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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