I'm in my mid-20's, broke off my first real long relationship about 2 months ago. Have only had a few girlfriends my whole life due to focusing on career so now into my personal development and focusing on my sexuality. Have been using Tinder and OKC and getting pretty good traction, I consider myself an 8-9.

Goal: sex with 1 new girl in March and 1 new girl in April.

Went out with one HB8 from OKC about 2 weeks ago, went on 2 dates, had good chemistry, made out, then she dropped the bomb that she wanted to get back with her ex. Note to self: screen these girls out better! I should have also escalated more as looking back she was probably DTF on date 2. She then texts me later that she still wants to hang out "as friends" and get back with her ex (confirmed on FB that they're back together). I haven't replied. Neeeeext.

My real question: went on a date with a girl yesterday from Tinder. On her photos she's an HB8. In real life? HB5. Doable, but barely. Brought her back to my place, made out, fingered, but no sex. "I don't do that on the first date" kinda line. 99% sure it will happen on date 2. Thing is, I know I can do better. Should I just do her to keep getting more experience while I set up other dates? Or just call it off now?