Vocal tonality: A topic that doesn't get raised on this sub much anymore. It helped me years ago more than almost any other advice.

Dikendoo · 2015-03-05T09:20:02+00:00

There's the obvious things that people can work on with seduction - like working out, posture, and eye contact - but years ago when I really needed this sub the thing that I noticed was most "wrong" with my game (and speech in general) was vocal tonality. I lurk here from time to time and it saddens me that this topic isn't brought up as much anymore. I'm sure it's buried in some long guide on the sidebar but sometimes people need to be reminded.

I found myself displaying submissive tonality on almost every sentence I ever spoke. I didn't even know that this was a thing but once it was pointed out to me I saw the clear connection between speaking with a dominant tone and success with women, and conversational success in general (ie: with co-workers, friends and strangers).

Definitely read this article and take it seriously. It took a while for me to put the dominant tone into my subconscious and speak it normally. I still slip up from time to time (sometimes you really are in a submissive situation and it slips!) but you should never feel anything less than dominant when talking to a woman that you intend to seduce, and your voice should reflect that.

I even started dating someone a while ago, and while all else remained fairly constant, once we got more comfortable I began to accidentally use the submissive tone much more. I could sense the attraction coming from her was weakening and I started to use the dominant tone much more and it came right back.

Sedditor829 · 2015-03-05T09:56:09+00:00

Your voice lets everyone know whether or not you feel in control.

AudiblePlasma · 2015-03-05T20:39:57+00:00

My biggest problem is being quiet. I think Im talking at an average level then people just always respond with "what???? repeat that??"

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-03-05T18:59:08+00:00

Oh sure it gets discussed often enough. I recently posted a link to a WSJ story How to Train your Voice to be More Charismatic which also has links to other materials I previously posted, training materials from Toastmasters.

Also, IMHO some of the most important material ever presented by RSD is about voice tonality. This short video by Tim is just a small sample of a lengthy video lecture on this topic.

rightsidedown · 2015-03-05T18:25:33+00:00

The problem with vocal tonality posts is that they just aren't very helpful. You really need to hear the wrong way, the right way, and most importantly yourself, to calibrate where you should be. In person someone could correct you pretty quickly.

Title	Vocal tonality: A topic that doesn't get raised on this sub much anymore. It helped me years ago more than almost any other advice.
Author	Dikendoo
Upvotes	36
Comments	9
Date	March 5, 2015 9:13 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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