The 5 Rules of Self-Confidence

eliseojacobo · 2015-05-05T02:14:44+00:00

Spot on.

Guoster · 2015-05-05T04:17:51+00:00

What we say and do has value....

We are all insignificant...

What.

MemoryLeaker · 2015-05-05T06:14:30+00:00

Don't be scared... Wow that's a piece of advice there. You could have just written 'just be confident' and end the article right away.

KawnN · 2015-05-05T11:36:13+00:00

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moyno85 · 2015-05-05T11:16:57+00:00

Don’t be afraid.

Nothing can happen. You know that if you approach someone, if you ask a question at school… Nothing bad can happen. No one will kill you. No one will hit you. The fear is irrational. The consequences are not real. Even on the slight chance that there might be this stupid social thing we call awkwardness – who cares. Remember >rules #1 and #3. Everything will be fine, we need to take risks sometimes. And you have value."

Good lord that is delusional and retarded.

There are a million things that can go wrong that can have profoundly negative effects on your self confidence. Jesus, I don't even know where to begin... At the extreme end of the spectrum you can be ridiculed, publicly humiliated, made to feel like an outsider... What you say and do in social situations is EXTREMELY important. Just telling someone to "Dude.. like, just don't be afraid man." achieves absolutely nothing. If you do or say something weird or awkward, people may not physically assault you but they will think you are weird and awkward and treat you accordingly.

If the answer was as simple as "Don't be afraid, nothing can go wrong" then social anxiety wouldn't exist...

This article is absolute, unadulterated rubbish.

CalvinHobb3s · 2015-05-05T06:34:05+00:00

I agree with everything but the lying bit. If you're good at lying, and I mean exceptionally good, the world is yours.

Title	The 5 Rules of Self-Confidence
Author	blueredgreenorange
Upvotes	241
Comments	17
Date	May 4, 2015 7:14 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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