So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, I infiltrated her group of friends at a university bar, we all got to know each other a bit and had a great time. At the end of the night we all exchanged numbers. Fast forward two weeks, I have asked her out on two dates and despite happily agreeing to both, somehow she dodged both times using unexpected family visits as an excuse. The one time she texted to let me know that she is going out with her friends to the same bar so I went to hang out with them again. I know that I am over investing big time, and she obviously isn't as attracted to me as I am to her since she will never initiate conversation, I always have to text her first, and the night we were supposed to go on the movie date she just ignored my phone calls completely. I was actually quite offended that she would be so rude.

I'll try to sum this up before my ramblings become excessive. I basically want to know if there is some kind of last ditch way to tell if I have any shot with her or if I should just cut my losses right now and stop contacting her .

Your thoughts?