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[–]TheBadBoyManBoy 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Enjoy yourself. Don't be self conscious and be loud with your emotions.
My best move is to pull a girl onto my beer pong team. When you make a shot give them a high five. Taunt the other team in a fun way. You will build an energy and people will start to notice you. If you keep winning then you become the king of the party. Don't forget to dance your ass off too. Girls will instantly flock to you side of the table.
[–]bigdickbandit7771 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
See I would apply this man, but I don't get invited to parties.
[–]TheBroCoder 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You said your friends do get invited to parties. Tell them to bring you along, if they refuse to bring you for some lousy excuse then you need to find new friends.
[–]RAINY_BITCHES 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, you're right. If your friends are invited, so are you. That's high school etiquette.
[–]TacticalBouncyCastle 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I could go back and talk to my high school self: Forget this stuff until you can approach a lot of girls on an almost daily basis. Either when you can go to lots of house parties in college, or when you can go to bars and clubs. Don't read another word of pickup material until you can practice a lot.
[–]killaswagyolo420 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Work on your looks. No matter where they're at now. Hit the gym, get your fashion some new life, new haircut maybe, etc.
Go to the nearest city. Without a phone (or just with it off). Explore. Look at new stores, try new food, go to a museum, see a movie. Chill in a Park and just people/nature watch.
While out in days like that, talk to people. Just small talk about the shit at hand. Ask what shirt looks good on you. Mention how weird the movie was to someone walking out with you. Just get used to casually chatting with people everywhere.
If there's a girl in your age group while out, go for it.
[–]Squand 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you play any sports? If not, what are your main hobbies?
[–]bigdickbandit7770 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm starting kickboxing soon, but I expect only dykes will attend. I lift almost everyday, and I longboard a lot. I also like outdoors stuff like cliff jumping and hiking.
[–]drunkunq6 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
"I expect only dykes will attend" this kind of thinking gets you no where
[–]RAINY_BITCHES 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This might sound quite blunt and harsh, but look at yourself, then look at the guys who take the girls 'away from you'. Understand the difference and better yourself. Work harder perhaps by going to the gym, expand your vocabulary and make yourself more interesting. The main reason girls usually lose INTEREST, is because you're not INTERESTing. Supply and demand basically, girls want to be entertained, and those lads entertain them, even if they are dicks or whatever.
[–]AwfulK 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dude, I just graduated college. I know you want advice for right now and I'm sure you've already heard this a lot but trust me, a year from now none of this stuff will matter. You'll stay in contact with the kids from high school that do. Focus on doing well in school, getting into a good university and focus on yourself first and foremost. Join a gym this summer and start lifting if you don't already. Look over your wardrobe and get some new (preppy) clothes. Make sure you look into universities with greek life and at least consider joining.
Yeah man I got all that in check. I got a 3.8 and have visited several universities. I dress really well. I've lifted for 3 years and have probably the best physique in my high school. I have everything in check, so I'm not just gonna stand by and wait to get girls until college. I'm a senior next year.
[–]CHNchilla 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you are smart, good looking, and dress well and still don't get attention from girls then one (or all) of the things are probably not true OR your personality could be turning people off (ie: You're an asshole).
[–]bigdickbandit7771 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'm definitely not an asshole. I think girls may get turned off after a while because I don't really know how to make an emotional connection to them.
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