How do I be forward with women without seeming creepy?

SinSlayer · 2015-07-12T01:32:17+00:00

Its not what you say, its how you say it. I've said some on the most outlandish shit imaginable to women and they went for it because of the way it was delivered.

JessePinkman88 · 2015-07-12T06:19:49+00:00

In general, women are creeped out when you're hiding your intentions or trying to prove yourself to them.

So if you sort that out, you'll only creep them out some of the time instead of ALL of the time :)

recyclablebantha · 2015-07-12T09:29:59+00:00

Being forward and clear in your intentions is only one piece, though important.

The missing piece here is awareness of HER desire and her state. It's that whole important idea of calibration.

Examples:

Creepy: Guy come up and turns a girl around, and kiss her full on the lips out of nowhere. He has confidently displayed his desire, but with full disregard of her, her state, and her desires.
Not creepy: A guy opens a girl non-verbally with eye contact from a distance. Establish her state and openness to you via eye contact; communicate with your eyes. She challenges you with her eyes and facial expression, inviting you over. You go over and, not having spoken a word, kiss her full on the lips. To her friends it seemed out of nowhere but she's throwing her arms around you.... enjoying the release of the tension you had just built up.

ItsJacck · 2015-07-12T08:58:42+00:00

dont be scared of rejection when you get over that you really wont care, it happens to us all Bro!!

DaygameCoach · 2015-07-12T15:04:18+00:00

1. Stop thinking of it as creepy. It's a self-limiting belief. If you think hitting on women is creepy, for you it is.

2. Read Mode 1, a book about being direct in your intentions.

3. Read body language books (Superflirt, Superdate, Unmasking the face, you say more than you think) to help you understand and recognize good and bad reactions you get when talking to women and IOIs in general.

4. Make hundreds of approaches as a start to become better calibrated. keep approaching!

Cuisine, daygamer.net

Sleuther · 2015-07-12T02:22:28+00:00

Some people will think you're creepy just for talking to anyone you don't know. Just be polite, and if they make it obvious they don't want to be talking, or talking to you, then move on.

Inshresting · 2015-07-12T10:52:12+00:00

You don't, some women will find you creepy, some won't. Be with the ones that won't. Do yourself a favor and read "Models" by Mark Manson, it's all about accepting your straight forwardness and forgetting about the people who don't.

uhasnicelegs · 2015-07-12T10:55:33+00:00

You just have to be honest, not beat around the bush, and fucking own what you say

sillypwilly · 2015-07-12T18:33:38+00:00

It's a thin line brother. You don't believe it to be creepy and neither will she. Just own it. I've done this for a good while now, and even still I can feel a mood shift if it's not done correctly. Boost up that comfort level while conveying your personality and you can say what you want without second thought.

FlyinBryan3 · 2015-07-12T05:45:47+00:00

If youre creepy, then be creepy. If it goes completely wrong, take a step back, say "im just kidding" and bury that shit with more conversation on your part. If she stays to talk, youre good, try again later, if not, then thats not the girl for you. move on.

Title	How do I be forward with women without seeming creepy?
Author	BengBong
Upvotes	13
Comments	19
Date	July 11, 2015 11:38 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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Examples:

1. Stop thinking of it as creepy. It's a self-limiting belief. If you think hitting on women is creepy, for you it is.

2. Read Mode 1, a book about being direct in your intentions.

3. Read body language books (Superflirt, Superdate, Unmasking the face, you say more than you think) to help you understand and recognize good and bad reactions you get when talking to women and IOIs in general.

4. Make hundreds of approaches as a start to become better calibrated. keep approaching!