Best way to learn how to kiss?

grass_cutter · 2015-08-10T20:22:15+00:00

First off, how old are you?

Secondly, don't overthink it. You think Don Juan or Cassanova or Gene Simmons were practicing kissing at any point in time?

Well maybe but not really. Just make out with chicks at often as possible and focus on your pleasure sometimes (only yours) and focus on theirs sometimes.

Try variety, shallow kisses, deep kisses, tongue sucking, no tongue, being aggressive, playing coy, pulling away first.

Just give it time. A girlfriend usually helps because you simply get laid and kiss far more often than while single.

Simply put, I wouldn't give a single shit what one girl said to possibly get in your head. If you do suck, it'll smooth out in a year or two anyway.

Morokweng · 2015-08-10T21:11:02+00:00

I don't know why everyone thinks that girls somehow magically know how to kiss well. They don't.

In general just keep the following in mind

Keep salava to a minumum, and stay on her lips. Don't drool all over her face
Don't pin her head to anything, give her room to back out.
Let your hands wander, lower back and ass if she's okay with that.
You're not having sex you're kissing, retain your composure and control, preferably withdraw from the kiss before she does.

Also kissing is like conversation, you have to find out what you both like, there's no 'right' way to do it really.

But yeah, its really not complicated and you shouldn't need to practice it, it should be instinctual, even monkeys can do it.

noiwontdance · 2015-08-10T21:16:15+00:00

From my own vast experience with women, I'd say yes. Women who get around a lot clearly are much more experienced and are good source of information when it comes to learning how to kiss. While some may see them as attention whores, others may see them as women who clearly love to love. You should always get involved with women who have been with many other men (perhaps even at the same time) before ever going for any others.

Lezrani · 2015-08-12T06:02:43+00:00

As a woman, I agree with the comments of the boys. The only way to get better is to practice. Sometimes when we (girls) have experience, we like someone who is at our level. But if you play your cards right (meaning you don't act like a womanizer or a brat, just be authentic and chill) you can have a really good shot. If you meet a girl that's not vast in experience but is charmed by you (meaning she is either interested because of your physical or your personality or both), she would probably be into experimenting with you. One last thing, keep in mind that the confidence you show to have in yourself is key (but not in a selfcentered way). Why this? well, let me just say that we often recieve what we give.... Hope this help, and good luck!

Title	Best way to learn how to kiss?
Author	Alpha-Turtle
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	August 10, 2015 7:44 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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