So I have been seeing this girl for over a month now. There is a big age gap in between us(12yrs), but I don't really care about that. What is getting me is that she ended up in the hospital yesterday and I wasn't even the first person she let know. She let her ex know and had him visit her first. They have a bit of a history together and I respect that, however I had some suspicions. So I checked her texts to him real quick and what I found shocked me. Now I have to figure out how to touch this subject, no love triangle for me. Also she wants to start using condoms again, which I have no problem with; except for the fact that I now know about her and the ex(no idea on how far its gone though). So brothers please bless me with your advice on how I should react to this.