Is there a guide for negging?

Alpha-Turtle · 2015-09-20T11:45:27+00:00

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Skippy244 · 2015-09-20T12:36:25+00:00

Don't try insult her, rather just tease her. Like if she says something stupid, call her out jokefully but if she gets angry just stop.

SlipstreamDrive · 2015-09-20T13:04:07+00:00

Is there a guide for...

Yes.

ninja_possum · 2015-09-20T14:47:36+00:00

1: Understand what a 'neg' is. A stupid amount of people, even on this subreddit, think a neg is an insult. It is not an insult. I'll repeat myself, a neg is not an insult.

2: An effective 'neg' is a backhanded compliment. You are complimenting them while making fun of them at the same time. This is classic flirting. So a neg is not 'lol your face looks retarded'

So negs are fine but understand what they are first. It's not so much about lowering a woman's self esteem but to differentiate yourself from other guys who would just fawn over and compliment a girl they're interested in (push-overs).

MovementOriented · 2015-09-20T13:39:52+00:00

don't do it. Because it really is pathetic

REDPUAM · 2015-09-20T18:42:35+00:00

I would recommend not to use neg until you are more experience. It is really damn hard to pull it off right(because pua scene was revealed by the game and media). If you want to use neg you have to be original. So to practice every person you see find their positive appearance and a negative one and articulate how to put them together in your head. When it comes natural for you then you can use it, but never ever use it as an approach mechanism. Only use it as a tool. Someone here says work on yourself instead of trying to lower a women level and i agree working on yourself is far better in the long term and you will feel better about yourself and gain confidence

evilgenivs · 2015-09-22T21:30:16+00:00

I'd say don't even try it. I fucked up major with a super hot girl, my "neg" was more of an insult I think. Still mad at myself.

Title	Is there a guide for negging?
Author	Alpha-Turtle
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	September 20, 2015 11:31 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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