Now, before you ask yourself some serious questions, i'm no native speaker. I've been reading for some time all the nice fuss that's going on here and i want to jump in. I come from a moderate background of social anxiety and, now in my 23 i've had less than 10 girls overall (many of em bisexual or even transgender god knows why). One of my major concerns it's my level of education (last year of medical school); i have the fear that, when talking with women they will spot something weirdie nerdie from my use of language that will turn them off. It's no wonder to anyone here that a man could lay a woman down just with monosyllables, this isn't my case, and i fear the contrary. I understand that the level of conversation,the topics, and even the vocabulary must be kept at a nice level when flirting, but it's not like there's a switch in my brain; any suggestion/thought about it?