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[–]SinSlayer 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Is it worth it to find a woman you're attracted too to have a long term relationship with?
[–]agavebee 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This seems like kind of a nasty and limited way to think about girls, even for this subreddit. How old are you, at this point, can I ask?
[–]hcarguy 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
man the threads today are all weirdly misguided and shitty. its just not accurate to generalise things like that, nor does it work like the way you think.
[–]Jacob_961 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok despite what is mentioned in the PUA community, humans largely are a monogamous. That is why we don't like going after fat chicks, because there is a chance we might end up having to take care of her.
Our emotional programing rewards us for attracting women that are worth taking care of and not the scraps that are left. There is no problem with attracting a 6-7 if she is good enough for you and you are attracted to her. However, it is a shame if you have to settle for her because you could have done better but you didn't have the balls to go out and work on yourself.
[–]Dodofisk1 points 10 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
My age has nothing to do with it..this is a thread for picking up girls with lines, moves etc so I think saying this is nasty then providing ways to escalate with girls isn't is rather hypocritical.
I am merely looking at it from a business perspective, I have no issues going up to people and opening sets or working on myself as an individual. I am well educated for the most part, have a good job that pays more than most, have lived all over the world so am very grounded. I know working on ones self is a life time quest but I am doing just fine in that department....this was simply an idea.
I mean everyone here approaches girls not because they have a nice personality off the bat but because they think they are hot or sexy..very shallow reasons to start a conversation with someone if we are honest it isn't until after you speak to them for awhile that you realize they might be mean, a b1tch, stupid, nice, fun etc etcbut even then many PUA will still try to bang girls they have no interest in.
Looks fade with time and it is the personality that will keep the relationship together through the long haul. I am attracted to dimes it then I can also get a boner from a 6. The point I was thinking about it chasing the dimes worth it when an HB7 is very good looking, in far more supply and as there are so many you are bound to find one who is awesome.
It was just a return on investment meandering I was having last nigt
[–]JessePinkman88 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're coming from a needy mindset. Hotter women are only more work because you are putting them on a pedestal and subtley believe you are unworthy. Therefore you think you have to be someone else to keep them around (eg. "work").
If you actually had solid self esteem, you wouldn't rate women objectively like this.
Try going with the binary scale, either she is attractive or not. Forget the other bullshit.
[–]unorthodoxintrovert 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're all the same... they're all women with women issues and desires
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