Inexperienced female seeking constructive advice

Aerobus · 2014-05-16T18:29:40+00:00

Prometheus720 · 2014-05-17T00:20:59+00:00

Understand that when people on RedPill talk about traits of women vs. traits of men, there are two variables at play.

Random chance. Some women are more like men in some things, some men more like women, etc.
Work. Women can become more like men in some things, and men can become more like women in some things if they make an attempt of it.

People on TRP will often say that men are more logical than women, because that's the easy way to say it. The proper statement would be more like, "Most men are naturally more attuned to logic than women." You can learn to bring your ratio of emotional/logical responses closer to a balanced position, and you don't need a whole subreddit for that.

Just practice; every time you have an emotional response, notice it as soon as you can and when you do, make it stop. Ask your SO to help you with that, or even your friends as well if you're comfortable with that. You're not learning to not have emotional responses, you're learning to operate a slider in your mind that changes how much emotion you put into something. This is a skill that men try to develop as well, you just don't have the same head start.

PhantomDream09 · 2014-05-16T21:36:04+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen

Come on over, we'll sort you out.

stillnoturday · 2014-05-16T22:24:27+00:00

At least you know it is a problem. Which that is you let emotion take over where logic should stay. Try to take a step back and ask yourself what the problem really is.

If you gave an example of how you have attitude problem and how you think you are punished "harshly" for it.

jeezydasnowman · 2014-05-17T01:01:22+00:00

Attitude = RBS (Raging Bitch Syndrome). Exercise self-control, think before you speak/rage.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-05-16T20:35:45+00:00

So. You "have a little bit of an attitude problem at times". This probably means that you're frequently a raving c-word. I don't know where this comes from, so I can't offer anything other than "STOP IT." Is it poor impulse control? Irrational beliefs about deservingness? Menstrual cycle issues? We really need more info.

ashglass · 2014-05-16T18:28:30+00:00

STFU, maybe?

Title	Inexperienced female seeking constructive advice
Author	punkprincess505
Upvotes	6
Comments	19
Date	May 16, 2014 6:05 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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