Thoughts on type, has yours changed, why?

letsgetrandy · 2015-12-11T19:36:16+00:00

I don't know if a preference toward people who are not overweight/obese really constitutes having a type, so much as a simple bias toward healthy, attractive women. In fact, I don't see it as much different from women wanting a man who's taller/stronger then them.

When people talk about having a type, it's usually something more specific, such as only liking asians, or blondes, or short-haired middle-easterners.

And frankly, I don't think there's any good justification for trying to broaden your horizons to include less healthy, less attractive women. The only thing that would accomplish is perhaps making it easier to have meaningless sex with more people you'll never care about.

pacg · 2015-12-12T06:05:58+00:00

Sounds like we have the same preference although I've dated outside of it well. There's a certain body type to which I'm attracted and I've never had a problem with it, never saw it as limiting. It certainly made selecting women to date more manageable.

Anyway, your issue is that you want to date outside of type. Not sure how to change one's type. If I were you, I'd look up something on re-anchoring preferences and tastes. Maybe one of those NLP magicians has cooked up a method. Hope you find what you're looking for.

hb8only · 2015-12-11T19:18:01+00:00

oh men.. I tried it.. I tried it a lot! a lot of chubby non skinny girls are so easy to fuck and date but frankly - when she is not skinny, it just dont have a future. even if we are like a soul mates. it sucks but, thats the biology.. cannot hack yourself...

edit: remember - sexi girl NEVER lover her standards for low attractive men, so dont do it eather!

joshsway · 2015-12-11T18:25:46+00:00

I have features I like and features I don't but I generally do not have a type, nor do I think it is healthy or useful to have a type. Stop worrying about what your psych professor says and explore a bit. You'd be surprised. I wrote a whole article on this actually: https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/stop-having-a-type

Title	Thoughts on type, has yours changed, why?
Author	Squand
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Date	December 11, 2015 6:21 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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