I can push girls, get them to validate themselves, etc. but then I lack in the pulling department. What kind of things would you say when pulling a girl? (in the push/push sense) Also, if you do too much push, I imagine that's what pushes a girl away and makes her uninterested, which is what I did yesterday, girl said we could be friends on our date and I said that I don't have time for it (asshole move, but I just wanted to fuck, not down to hangout with a girl I'm sexually attracted to with no sex.) and so we parted ways and I evaluated the date and realized that I was pushing a lot, I wasn't very friendly and kind of came off as an asshole as opposed to our first date, where everything went great and I was very friendly getting to know her and got a k-close and second date. How do you guys balance push/pull? What kind of things do you say to a girl to "pull" her without going overboard?