Girl told me to wait for a date until she's done w her FWB

Bettingmen · 2016-01-01T23:26:09+00:00

Don't be someone's silver medal.

ChadPUA3 · 2016-01-01T23:56:33+00:00

If you like being viewed as a Plan B to a guy the girl is using as a living dildo, then by all means, wait around til she's done cucking you.

Sakred · 2016-01-02T00:39:24+00:00

So, what did you say if not yes or no?

It sounds like he might be a bit more meaningful than just a FWB, that or she only likes sleeping with one person at a time. Either are fine.

Only you can decide if it's "worth it" to "wait for her," but that sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy where you get stuck in this situation again in Feb when the next FWB pops up suddenly after the current one leaves.

Have you told her that you're seeing other people too?

I would have said something like, "yeah maybe, I'm dating other people too soI don't know if I'll still be available. You can hit me up in February and we'll see." Then gone on to another group of people at the party and just had a good time.

7_Arab_Kids · 2016-01-01T22:33:47+00:00

You say she's gonna stop seeing him in February. What is her plan? Is she gonna just cut him off or is he moving or something. Do you know? It sounds like a disaster waiting to happen, to me.

nummas · 2016-01-01T23:38:10+00:00

Sounds like your her fall back guy. She has control not you. If it was me I'd be telling her that I'm not a fall back and move on and see if she changes her mind.

HotHamAndFrisco · 2016-01-02T00:57:58+00:00

Just wait yo. Say " No worries" move on. Keep in touch with her till time comes.

Bubba1996 · 2016-01-02T14:19:44+00:00

My question to you is: why aren't you talkibg to more girls?

zeroes_n_ones · 2016-01-03T04:02:06+00:00

i apologize for my previous comment, it wasnt helpful.

do what you feel is right but have some self respect.

dont be the rebound guy or placewarmer, good luck & godspeed.

zeroes_n_ones · 2016-01-01T21:51:32+00:00

i personally would make her a side project and work out, eat right then fuck her over in february by pulling the same shit on her.

if you already work out, train a little harder than normal. go out with the other girls & pick one of them to concentrate on being your girlfriend.

when your date with said girl happens post february, turn up slightly late.

excuse yourself by saying your fwb didnt know time management.

now that she sees you in better shape, if things heat up shoot her down & say you were mistaken this will never work for me.

have respect for yourself, this bitch plays the field and unless you enjoy the taste of other mens cocks find someone else.

this bitch keeps a contingency plan, yuck. she lets dudes hit it responsibility free but keeps a torch for them.

she nasty.

Title	Girl told me to wait for a date until she's done w her FWB
Author	teven_phteven
Upvotes	7
Comments	24
Date	January 1, 2016 9:01 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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