statements of interest

-0-1- · 2016-01-08T16:31:35+00:00

Just be suggestive. Tease her sexually. Say something like 'are you hitting on me' on appropriate occasion or talk about sex in some other context. Start with this.

breisingerstrudel · 2016-01-08T18:58:43+00:00

don't compliment too much. most of the times it turns out cheesy and needy. in my opinion, it is all about subcommunication, meaning physical escalation and clear, bold EYE CONTACT. you don't have to say anything, it is about body energies. she will get it, be sure. women get these kind of things pretty fast

DaygameCoach · 2016-01-08T19:56:45+00:00

An SOI (Statement of Intent) is often as simple as telling a woman that something about her is sexy. Or getting her to visualize kissing, or sleeping with you. She needs to know you aren't looking for a bowling partner, but ahve a sexual interest and the balls to pursue it. SOI is from the Juggler (Wayne Elise) days. Good stuff.

Also, read Mode 1 by Roger Allen Currie for how to be more direct with women.

Cuisine, Daygamer.net

Cynical_Doggie · 2016-01-09T00:19:01+00:00

Don't let her know you like her by telling her.

Let her know through your actions, as in, taking her out somewhere, remembering the little things and being thoughtful, and physically escalate.

'you are hot' is cringy as fuck.

HotHamAndFrisco · 2016-01-09T01:42:25+00:00

You're adventurous. I love it

Compliments are fairly straight forward. If something she does genuinely impresses you then say so

J_Dilla_ · 2016-01-08T17:08:29+00:00

Give proper compliments...things like "hey love you're fucking class, fancy fucked?" is not charming and very polarising. You can still let a girl know you think she's attractive without being caveman blunt.

Compliment the sparkle in her eyes, how her hair looks to well maintained and styled. Compliment her accessories, especially her shoes. Girls wear nice shoes for a reason....they wouldn't wear killer heels that fuck up their whole body just to "dance with the girls"...she's doing it for you dude.

Teasing is good too...but there is an art to it...one I like to do is after we're talking for ages and there are sparks there is to give her a big hug and say something like "you're so fucking cute I love it" and then suddenly step away and be like "jesus I'm getting so turned on what the fuck are you doing to me" and act all shocked...then I slowly gravitate back to her...again it can be risky and hard to pull off but it ties into the whole push pull thing and you're teasing the fuck outta her.

Title	statements of interest
Author	wartorle
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	January 8, 2016 4:04 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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