When a girl says "I don't know what I want" what does that mean?

AwayThrowId · 2016-01-12T22:38:49+00:00

Bad. It means she doesn't want you.

lokiju99 · 2016-01-13T14:48:45+00:00

It means. "I might want you... If nothing better comes around." Either way, if she's not excited to be with you, you should move on and find someone that is.

yamakiriroronoa · 2016-01-13T15:41:11+00:00

It means"you're the MAN, you wear the pants , decide for me!"

letsgetrandy · 2016-01-13T22:45:24+00:00

It means:

I don't want anything serious with you
But I don't want to tell you no, so I do have some interest in you
I might start seeing you until something better comes along
But it would be so much easier if we could just fuck sometimes, and if I knew that you wouldn't be a clinger and you wouldn't flip out when I start seeing someone else

So if you're capable of never talking about starting a relationship, and capable of keeping your possessiveness and anger under control, there IS room for a bit of FWB.

Satern38 · 2016-01-12T23:16:17+00:00

Pretty general question, you've got to pick up what type of vibe she is giving off. Just off that alone I'm taking a wild guess here and thinking she is probably into you, but not sure if she actually wants a relationship to happen (most likely a no but she doesn't want to make things awkward between you two)

But like I said, way to general for anyone to know for a fact what she means, and everyone interprets things differently

masterplan2020 · 2016-01-13T00:09:31+00:00

Couldn't disagree more with people saying "she doesn't want you." It could just as easily mean "I dont want to say something that makes you want me less."

On the whole, doesn't mean much. Her behaviors are a better sign of what she wants than her words, esp on topics like this.

Karchick91 · 2016-01-13T05:57:44+00:00

She doesn't know what she wants but it must not be u right now that's how girls r

TheMistryWriter · 2016-01-13T12:17:12+00:00

Yup.. been there.. she doesn't want you...

2016-01-12T23:37:06+00:00

Pretty fucking clear that she's not into you. She might not know what she wants, but when she tells you that, she's being pretty straight about what she doesn't want.

2016-01-13T00:52:50+00:00

It means "You're not alpha enough." An alpha shows her what he wants and leads.

Title	When a girl says "I don't know what I want" what does that mean?
Author	accountrel
Upvotes	12
Comments	18
Date	January 12, 2016 10:36 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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