Social circle or cold approach?

NickTheHeroic · 2016-01-15T01:35:20+00:00

Ultimately man it doesn't matter. All that matters is attraction. If you are attracted to a girl and she is attracted to you things will happen. The only difference is with a social circle you share a pre-existing connection and by default aren't strangers, you're friends of a friend of a friend etc. Automatically there's a level of comfort and rapport between you and the girl.

On the other side of the coin we have cold approach. You're approaching a girl with no prior knowledge of anything about her other then the fact you find her attractive. Guess what? If she also finds you attractive and isn't restricted socially by having a boyfriend or being in the company of her parents or whatever else you'll probably hit it off with her.

At the end of the day I've had success within social circles and with cold approaching. I'll be the first to admit that it's a lot easier with an existing connection to the girl, but it's not a necessity. With a social circle you're limited to the people other people know, with cold approach you're free to try with any girl you feel like.

Pros and cons man. Don't choose one or the other like you're choosing a starter Pokemon. Incorporate both into your life for maximum success.

DaygameCoach · 2016-01-15T01:39:48+00:00

If you can only do one (it's a self limiting belief but whatever), then cold approach. If you switch back to social game later....you will be much stronger at it.

Ricardo2991 · 2016-01-15T05:01:59+00:00

Sounds like you don't know how to talk to/disarm men. I'd practice cold approaching men and groups of coeds if I were you.

Sbeast · 2016-01-15T10:09:54+00:00

Never go in cold son. You wanna warm that shit up first, use your hands, stick your dick in a microwave, it doesn't matter, as long as you ain't entering frozen son.

Oh sorry, I misread the question.

No idea, ask one of da other reel playas ;)

daddymonsterpoodle · 2016-01-15T20:48:31+00:00

What do you enjoy the most? Do that.

Title	Social circle or cold approach?
Author	New_guy_96
Upvotes	7
Comments	15
Date	January 15, 2016 1:26 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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